Member Since: January 6, 2005 Answers: 90 Last Update: January 30, 2005 Visitors: 5376
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My mom and I spent the whole day together. That's not the point. We went somewhere to visit family and when we came home, I went in my room to get away, to relax. So she goes in the living room and sits down on her fat ass.. and conviniently starts ordering me to do things. I was sitting her, we had gotten home like 15 minutes prior to this. I told her I would do it in a bit but she proceeded to yell at me to do it. So the very last time she yelled at me, these were her words: "If you're not fucking out here in 5 damn minutes, I'm kicking your ass off the computer." So in return, I told her to shut up. Not even yelling, it was to myself, and she overhead. So she came to take my danm cellphone, the phone I bought with my money, and pay for with my money, and for some reason she believes she has owenership over because its in her name. BULLSHIT. I'm so pissed I'm hitting shit now.. I want to hit her. Please help. (link)
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You're gonna hate what I have to say, but she is your mother. You only have one mother and you should respect her at all times, even when you think she isn't respecting you. Face it, honey, you started the disrespecting routine by saying you'd "do it in a bit" (now, did you really say it that way?) and, even if you bought the bloody cellphone, it is in her name, you are a minor, you are living under her roof, you live according to her rules, so straighten up. (And personally, I think you're probably leaving out some of what happened and what was said by you, but that's my own opinion.)
Now, to make things a little easier. Hitting her is NOT the solutiong. Calm down a little, cool down a bit. Then go out and -- are you ready for this? -- APOLOGIZE TO HER. Try to talk with her for awhile ON AN ADULT LEVEL. You can do it!
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