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Q: im prude and so not happy with it. im 13 and most of my friends r not prude and im like so jealous that guys r all over them when i truy think im prettier or just as hott.i really dont wanna have sex or ne thing i just wanna make out with a guy.thanks
My honest opinion is that, i belieave you are to young to be worring about all that you have all the years ahead of you, to worry about all that. Think about school for now. Really if you get into all that alot of times it leads to other things. So look at it as you are the smart one out of your friends. You may be a little hottie but at least you will be a hottie with a college degree later while they have had to stop going to highschool, to stay home and raise a baby, at a young age. You have your adult life to look forward to, so you can make plans later for all that stuff. So my advise to you don't do what your friends do. You set the example for them and maybe they will follow you, and better them selves. I say this also because i have a 13 year old, and people look up to her because she is prude and not because i threaten her but because that is what she chooses. She tells me she is going to have a future, and she will. So you think about it and i hope my answer in some way will help you with your disision. Goodluck kid

no, i dont want sex i wanna be un-prude. and plus nowadays its normal not to be prude. get with the program! thanks any way

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I am a single mother with 3 kids. I am in a relationship, that i hope will become a longterm thing. I am easy going, i am a very open minded person. I work for a living. And most of all i enjoy my family. I give good advise, but at times i need it more than i can give it.

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