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just wondering... met a great guy on match.com, we've been dating for almost 11 months... but he still has his ad up there! what's the deal with that? a male ego thing? He said no he's not looking for another girlfriend, and gave me a beautiful diamond necklace for christmas. he's 35 I'm 39. tell me how to get what I want, just a steady boyfriend without all the wondering. I'm too old for this high school crap.

A lot of people on those match maker sites will keep their adds up because they like talking to a lot of different people. My freind herself talks to about three or four guys herself, just because she likes having people to talk to without the fear that she'll be embarrased or have her secrets told. He probably just likes to talk to different people. But, he sounds really serious about you. Diamonds are a big deal! He loves being with you, but likes talking to other people. Hope I could help a little bit! Good luck with your budding romance!!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks... really helps to look at the positive rather than the negative. You rock!

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