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my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?

He loves you, thats why he wants you to marry him. Since he loves you that much, he probably doesn't see anything wrong with telling people. When you're in love, a lot of people want to tell the world. Not letting him tell might actually make him feel bad, and make him think you're ashamed of him or something. Which is ridiculous, you are marrying him, but still. Guys are complex. But if you are shy and don't want to be the center of attention, you should just tell him how you feel. Exactly, and your not wanting to be the center of attention. He'll most likely understand. Or, you could just let him tell a few people that you are both close to, that way he can let out his excitment to someone. He probably feels like the luckiest guy in the world and just wants to tell everyone what a catch he has! It will make him feel estatic that you love him enough to marry him! Good Luck!! Have a great wedding, I wish you the happiest years with your beau!!

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