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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?
OH EM GEE!!! Wow! You are kind of stupid for cheating on your boyfriend and you are totally stupid for having sex without a condom. What were you thinking. I do not care if I am being mean becausae you made a really stupid mistake. You are fourteen and you are already having sex! What is wrong with you? Did you think that you would be cool? That is stupid. First of all, if you are thinking of getting an abortion, that makes you even more stupid!!!!! You know if you get an abortion you will be killing a little kid. Good luck with feeling like shit the rest of your life. You can go through wit hthe pregnancy and give he/she up for adoption. I was reading the comments you recieved and whoever wrote that you need to drop out of high school is REALLY retarded and stupid. Gosh, that bothers me that people say that you have to drop out of high school to have a kid. You can go to high school and then take a maternity leave. Some girls did that in my high school. You should call over your "boyfriend" to your house and make sure that your parents are home but not by you so if anything bad were to happen, they could be there, then tell your "boyfriend" that you are pregers and also tell "Mike" that you are pregers. YOU SHOULD NOT GET AN ABORTION BECAUSE THEN YOU WILL BE A MURDERER! If you do not want the child, give the child up for adoption. But otherwise, this is a BAD, BAD situation for you. Abstinence until marriage would have helped you stay out of it. Nice work. WOW! I still cannot believe that you are 14 and pregers. You need to not have sex anymore. That is my BEST advice to you. I hope that I helped you in some weird way.
-Inga
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I can't blame you for anything you said. Trust me, i'm finishing my education......but plz don't call me stupid...well thanks!
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