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I overheard one of my friends telling a boy how I had criend over what she oviously thought was nothing and laughing over it. Sometimes she runs away from some of her other friends (who are also my friends) and me with her bitchy friend, then pretends it was nothing and that Im over reacting. Then she is really friendly again.She has done this so many times now I secretly don't like her at all. However, she is really popular and I think if I stopped being her friend all my friends would still be with her as she has this way of making people side with her. I don't know what to do about it..(Sorry about the length).
Zoinatrobe.

The lengh is fine, I've written way longer. Anyways, if they're really your freinds they'll stick by you! But, they may really be her freinds too, or maybe they're scared that if they take sides with you, then they won't be popular. Try looking for new freinds while, at the same time staying her freind. You should tell her exactly how you feel, and if she says that you're overreacting, tell her, "Maybe so, but this is how I feel." It will show her that you're serious, an that's how you feel. Or, maybe you could vent to one of your closer freinds about how you feel. I've always found that keeping a journal helps me sort my feelings out and gives me ideas about what to do. Or, when you feel down just grab a peice of scrap paper and write how you feel on that. The thing is, If you find new freinds,m that you can be yourself around and who treat you right, even if your not labeled 'popular' by others, you'll feel popular just having good people around you and it won't bother you anymore. I really hope that you can find the happiness and freinds that you're looking for, Good Luck!!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks- thats the best answer Ive got so far for this question! Thanks again!!Zoinatrobe.
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