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ok so i'm fighting w/ my bestfriend..and like now the "popular" girls are all sorta taking her side. and they decided to put mean things in their infos about me, and it doesnt say me but i can tell..and their so stuck up and snobby and they think their so much better than everyone else, when their just b*tches that spend their time talking about other people. and they think their so "popular" when more people hate them then actually like them. and i have a group of friends that love me for me and i'm happy with my life. so after hearing all this your probably thinking what's the problem? well even though i know i shouldnt let what they say get to me..it Really Really does..and it just hurts even though i know their not worth my time. :-( any advice? i rate high for effort..thanks..

"Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything."
-Muhammad Ali

"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a little better; whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Maybe its time to change your profile... people especially if you are still in school can be cruel for no real reason, If you make a concious effort to be happy and kind and just a wonderful person other people will come in and drowned out everthing the'popular' kids have to say... it is their job to be hurtful, to put people down to be in generall awful individuals, I know this because I was one of them. Until I started standing up for myself and having an opinion... and in the long run, I was a lot happier... when I first left them they were cruel and horrible and mean, but after a while, I found so many wonderful people that what they said didn't phase me anymore and they grew bored of trying to bother someone who didn't care about them. If you and your friend are close, it'll be able to be worked out... just remember that people change, and maybe your changing, its all fine... just keep being happy with your life, keep believeing that no matter what things will go ok, and you will do just great... and another thing, this will blow over in a while, and people will forget it completely, it may take time, but it won't be forever... best of luck to you.
Frost

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much~*
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