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I love to help people. My Friends always come to me when they need help because i give good advice and i don't tell anyone about what we talked about. I always try to help people no matter what. I put my family and freinds before myself always.
Gender: Female
Age: 13
AIM: xoblondiexo1434e
Member Since: January 5, 2005
Answers: 4
Last Update: January 6, 2005
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I haven't seen my mother for 9 years, I'm 14. She's been on methampthetamines my entire life. I just got word today of where she is, I talked to her about 3 years ago. I need to go see her so that I can get over the fact that she will never be my mom. I just need some advice on what to say to her, and I really want to tell her to stop doing methampthetamines. I know that I won't be able to help her, but I just need some advice on how to deal with the fact that I will never have her as my mom, and that I will never be able to help her. I know it's hard to answer, but please, if anyone can help me. The pressure is too much, I'm seeing her this weekend. Please help me. I have no one else to turn to. (link)
I think you should tell her how you feel about her use of methampthetamines, but you should be rashional why you tell her. Use the time that you have w/ her this weekend to talk about your life what is new with you, how you feel about her being gone, and if you want to change your communication w/ her. They have alot of support gruops that you can go to and talk to people about situations that get to stressful to deal with. Try going to a YMCA near you they have alot of support groups and they really help. Good luck with visiting your mom and remember to be rashtional while talking to her.


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Thanks for trying, but it's so much harder than that.




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