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My life stinks and i hate it I have like no friends cuz i go to such a small school. And my parents are having a divorse which is not going good. We are losing all are money my parents are both dating i hate my moms boyfriend who is a jerk my mom doesnt want to tell my dad that she has a boyfriend cuz shes a weirdo and she just yells at me all the time because i dont like her stupid boyfriend i have a boyfriend but he is MIA (missing in action) havnt heard from him in like a month. And my brother is a big jerk and i just want advice on what i should do I want to kill my self.

HELP ME

Please don't kill your self! That's not the answer, you can always make things better if you're alive, but you can't when you're dead. After reading your message though, I can understand why you would have these feelings. I'm sorry that your parents are getting a divorce and that your boyfreind is MIA. I thought about killing myself once, the problem was that I didn't really want to die! I wanted to escape, just get away from it all. But think about it, people really would care if you were gone, you touch someone everyday, even if you think you don't. Think about your boyfreind, how would he feel if he found out that you killed yourself? I know that he's missing, but eventually he'll be found. I REALLY understand how you feel about your moms boyfreind. My mom married this guy I really didn't like, he was there for five years! Beleive me, I know. Here's how I got over it; After a really big fight, and I mean huge, my mom was going to attempt suicide, because she thought that she let me down. After I heard about it though, I realized that I really didn't want my mom gone, I loved her, and I knew somewhere inside that she loved me too. I stopped her. And I felt like crap for driving her to such extremes. After going to my room to cool down, I realized that she deserved to be happy, and I deserved to be happy. And the only way that she would be happy is if she had me AND him, even though she loved me more. So I accepted it, I didn't like him still, but I didn't hate him after that. And I told her that I accepted it. And It felt so great! So what I'm saying is, try to accept what you can't change, because it will only bring you down if you don't! Why bother if it can't be changed? And give your boyfreind the best thing that you can, prayer and hope. Even if you don't have a religion, hope. Hope is one of the most powerful things in the world. As is love, just knowing that he has your love and you, will give your boyfreind strengh. I know that divorce can be rough, my parents were also divorced. I really hope that this helps! Please don't kill yourself, because of all the people that love you, and care about you. And after reading this, I care about you too. Good Luck!!

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(Rating: 5) u give like the best advice thanks soo much!
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