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Hey everybody! My name is Ann, and I think I give pretty good advice. I am nineteen, my favorite color is orange, I love pasta, am the oldest child out of five, am Catholic, and am a music education major with flute as my principle. Feel free to ask me anything, and I'll do my best!

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Today at skool I called myu exbf a fag. He completly hates me and I dont even think that he cares that I called him it, he just gets mad and I kno that.I honestly feel bad.I still care about him for some dumb reason. For the past few hours it just replays back and forth in my head me calling him a fag. Should I feel so guilty? He isnt the nicest person to me either. It really sucks going to school with him bc I have to see him everyday. I really want to forget him but I cant.I try and avoid him and completly ignore him but it doesnt work. I dont even look at him anymore. We just act like we both dont exist to eachother. I dont like being ignored by him. I broke up with an exbf a few months ago and it is easier to get over him and I was in love with him, then it was to get over chris.Why am I like this? Why do I still care about him? Is it bc at one point in my life he made me happy, I loved him and wanted him more then anything?...is that it! plz help me its driving me nuts!

OK...well calling your ex a fag when you still have feelings for him obviously isn't helping like you think it should. And you wonder why you feel so guilty? Well, what is he really doing to you that doesnt make him the nicest person? Going to the same school and haveing an ex can be hard I know I went through the same prob. All I can say, if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. Just going up to him and calling him random names isnt helping and maybe u feel so bad becuz he didnt even say ne thing to you in the first place. Well all I can say is either avoid him all together and not say anything to him or try and compromise and be friends. Otherwsie you will probably continue to feel bad. Sit down and talk to him and tell him how you really feel...you never know it just might help.

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(Rating: 3) Well I called him a fag bc he always calls mea slut and stuff when he knows I am not a slut. We have been fighting since we broke up for a few weeks in september when school first started we were good but after that it all went down hill.I have tried talking to him numerous times and it never works.I havent actually tried to be friends with him in a a few months, but he said I was clingy so I just left him alone. I just miss him thats all. He used to say that no matter what he would be here for me to talk to and thats all I want. I am going through alot in my life right now with family and friends and he knows what I go through. He knows what I have to deal with at home and he was always there for me to talk to.Now I have like no one that I actually feel comfortable talking to. So I stay by myself.
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