Hey everyone!! Well where should i start? Well my name is Chelsey, i live in Connecticut. Ever since i was a little kid i was sort of the person that everone runs to and tell them their problem, and they knew that i would never tell anyone. Also I have a lot of experiance in helping people i am a Peer Mediator in my school and i have been one for 4 years now. I have heard probably every problem that you can imagine from little things to very very dangerous issues. I can't really say some of the things that i have herd because that would braking my code of confidentiallity but i'll tell you some of the things that i have been through. Well I have delt with a lot of love issues from boyfriends to even your family neglecting you from love. For example my Father was a great dad when i was younger but what happened is my parents got divorced because my Father used to abuse my Mother and my Mother knew that she had to get out of the relationship for me because she didn't want me to grow up to that and think that it was a healthy relationship. So at first he was a perfect dad like he was when he was married to my mom but soon he became a deadbeat father never paying child support and never caring about me. He became a criminal which is in prison right now. Well yeah thats all i'm really going to say about that. I have also had a whole lot of experiance with self injury because i used to inflict injuries on myself (a.k.a i used to be a cutter). Also i have had a lot of friends in the past that used to cut and i have helped them all quit because i have helped them through it but i didn't make them top i gave them the comfidence to make themselfs stop. Because i have always said you can never make anyone do anything you can only suggest things and try to make it happen. Only them can have the power to make themself do something. I also know a lot about abuse because my Mother used to be abused by my Father, her Mother and her Brother. And she has told me all about it. Also one of my close friends has been abused by her Father. I know a lot about friendships too and how to make them better. Well thats all i have to say but i am excited to be giving everyone advice soon!!! Lots of Luck to everyone but making their lives better!!
Lots of love xox,
Chel
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hey, i am a 16 year old female and im really upset and i dont know where else to go. my mother has Fibromyalgia and borderline Lopus. ok thas not the thing tho. she has always told me that children coudlnt get it and that it wasnt something that she could pass onto me. ive been really sick over the last 2 years and they havent been able to figure out what with. i have been to it seems every dr. possible. well then today i went to a rheumatologist and he told me that i need to go see a specialist who specializes in Fibromyalgia cause he thinks that i have it or that i could have lopus. OMG im just like freaking out now. im soo upset cause ive seen how its taken over my mom's life. and with me- i have had to give up cheerleading, work, driving and socializing in general. i am in the 11th grade and its an important year.. the problem is that i only make it to school once a week if im lucky. i just want to get better. now ive heard that if they find it early enough they can prevent me from having it all my life. does anyone know if thats true? or have any thing that they can tell me about it or anything for support? im just so upset and i want to get better! (link)
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Oh My God i know how you feel becuase i grew up with my mom all my life and she has fibromyalgia and lopus. also There are ways that you can make fibromyagia better but you can't make it go away sad to say...but i know how sad and bad it is i've been affected by my mom all my life becuase she can't do normal things becuase she never feels good very raely she feels good!...We can never make plan becuase we hav no idea how she's goin to feel. all my life i've always worried about getting it nd i hope i dn't becuase i have my dad's health but i feel so bad for you and your mom. you should really try to get in to a suppot group with you and your mom. Also i would love to talk to you anytime! my AIM screename is punkbabegurl900. You could IM me any time (when i'm on) but i would love to talk to you cuase iknow what it feels and i've never met another person in my life that has someoe that has it and goes through the same thing with there mom!
~Goodluck!!!!!!!!~
xoxCHELLYxox
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omg- thank you so much sweetie. that really meant alot! and i WILL talk to you on AIM! i know a few people with fibromyalgia but the fact that I might have it.. ahh! lol but thanks again!
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