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Is it possible to change certain characteristics that you don't like about yourself? Recently there have been things that I've done that I normally wouldn't do that have made me and my bf get into fights. They're little fights, and we always end up resolving them, but in the end I feel like a complete idiot for making such a big deal out of certain things. I want to change the way I react to things, and the way I think about certain things. Do you think that's possible?? Any suggestions? (link)
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hey! anything is possible as long as you believe that you can do it. since you seem to be having trouble controlling the way you react to things, try to always think about what you are going to do. this may sound lame, but i think it would work. if you think about it, then you'll realize that it is no big deal and then you wont get in a fight about it. you'll probably wont be able to change it everytime, cause it will be very hard in the beginning. but you may be able to do it if you concentrate on what you are saying and the way you react. we all react too much at some point, but its true that people who react too much tend to get a little bit annoying sometimes. well, i'm sure that you'll be able to do it if you really want to. if you need my help Im me or just leave me a message. peace and love!
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wow thanks!! i'm gonna try that and see how it goes
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