The name is Kayla.
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E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
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Age: 16
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HI,
Here's the story. I met a guy online from some site and we met up with eachother but only once. Hes a great guy and when we met, It didnt go well but regardless of that we decided to continue with this and see where it goes in the future knowing fully well that it may end badly considering hes Bengali and his folks want a Bengali girl but he said u never know so I didnt give up hope. hes from Montreal, we started calling eachohter and talking etc.. then all of a sudden I dont hear anything from him etc. and then I contact his friend. and it continues from there.
I have been contacting his friend regarding THE GUY.. and he said that when he tried talking to him he didnt want to talk about it. I don't understand why he would act like that. I have been nothing but nice to him. Yes, I've been a bit crazy with the emails and stuff..asking him what is the status of our relationship. But that was in the past. You would think that knowing what I have done that he would be more accepting. He emailed me once and told me this: You don't need to worry about me too much. I have some family issues that I need to deal with. I will talk to u later. and after that I got no response. Those messages I sent were before he sent that message to me. I don't understand why hes got to be soo secretive that he can't even share things with me.. His friend tells me: Do you think you should hold on to him especially if hes not responding to you? I don't really know what to do.. its hard lettting go.. especially whenever I hear from his friend. I somehow subconciously beleive that there is hope when I hear from his friend.. I dunno. I think im crazy.. wat do I do? pls help
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Ok! My personal opinion is that he doesn't want to become more attatched to you then he already is because his parents are not allowing you two to see eachother. Therefore, the only way he knows how to do this is to not speak to you and he wanted to let you know that the reason for this was because his parents won't let him date you and that makes him very upset. I'm guessing he doesn't know any other way of dealing with this. -Kayla
Ok . . . I'm adding to my answer. Maybe you should try writing him a letter or something telling him exactly how you feel and ask him what is really going on because your going crazy not knowing and you'd rather know if he didn't like you then keep on wondering. Hope this helps! -Kayla
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I dont get it.. I want to email his friend and talk to him.. hoping that would somehow calm me down I dunno.. I cant eat I cant sleep. all I think about is him. its driving me crazy
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