Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: College Student
Age: 21
Member Since: October 28, 2004
Answers: 91
Last Update: July 21, 2005
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I have a new boyfriend at university, but I find myself keeping this news from my friends at home because I don't want it to get back to my ex-boyfriend, becase he is in a very fragile place at the moment and it would really hurt him to find out that I've moved on to somebody else. What I'm trying to do is protect my ex-boyfriend, because I still care about him and don't want to hurt him any more than is necessary, but I feel bad for misleading him and my other friends. Would it be better to just come clean, even if it hurts him in the short term, or should I wait until he's in a better place until I break the news? (link)
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The fact that you have a new bf is none of your ex's concern. Your in college dont worry about everyone at home. Although I do think that you should probably tell your friends. But let it be known to them that you dont want it spread around the entire world and if they are your real friends they will understand this.
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Thanks. I'm sure my friends would be understanding, but I don't want to tell them and then ask them to keep the secret from my ex-boyfriend, who they are friends with.
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