I give my friends a lot of advice on a variety of different things and while I'm at work, I tend to be quite bored and don't have much to do so I was surfing the net and found this site and thought it might be interesting. I've been through a lot...so I think I can help some people out...
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Ok hey well i have these 2 friends that i always have classes w/ we rarely never have class together maybe like 2 hrs outta the day..but in all the hours we do..they never really wanna talk to me they always ignore me like im not there and leave me out..and if i don't talk they get pissed off..and im sick of them absolutely am sick of there stupid crap they throw fits if i dont freakin give them there way..and lately..its really gotten to me cuz mostly this one girl is always talkin about her boyfriend..and im so0o sick of hearing about him b/c trust me hes my ex boyfriend and hes not that friggn special! we fought all the time..n he just wants her for sex..but you cant tell her that b/c shes so0o stuck up! so0o i guess my questoin is..how do i talk to these people about my built up anger that could explode @ ne moment and get tonz of people pissed off @ me!
Thanks a Bunch
Ill rate if i think its good or if u attempt
xOvEr AnD oVeR aGaInx (link)
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It sounds like you have some really annoying and childish "friends." First off, real friends don't behave like that. Secondly, they throw fits??? How old are they??? Personally, I'm very picky about who I hang around. I don't want to be around people that don't keep me happy and that are demanding. Also if they make you feel like that I can just imagine how they are towards people who aren't their friends. Don't explode, my advice, sadly, would be find some new friends or if these "friends" of yours only behave like this in school, ignore them in school. If they're treating you like this outside of school, you really need to drop them. Groups are a hard thing to deal with in school. There's always the leader, the followers and then generally there's the one that is there for everyone's amusement. Its sad, but its a high school thing. No matter which clique, popular, rejects, nerds, there's always one that is chosen to be left out and is just there for some random reason. Unfortunately for some reason you seem to be that chosen one...you seem like a very intelligent and nice person, its your friends that seem to have the issue. Find some new friends and get a different position in the group. I hate school politics. When you get out of high school, things are much much better. I wish you the best of luck.
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Thanks a lot..that really helps..i guess it is not good to explode..and they are 16 and they throw fits..and u seem like a really good person 2 know... if u wanna talk i have an msn e-mail addy.. xSiMpL3_PlAnx@hotmail.com you made me feel a lot better about this.. i guess i dont need them as friends
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