Member Since:
October 24, 2004Answers:
15Last Update:
November 26, 2004Visitors:
2634Main Categories:
Love Life
Sports
Families
View All
about

advice
i guess this might be a stupid question, but something kind of depresses me. my boyfriend asked me last night would it be okay if he spent new years with his guys this year. he said that him and i spent the last 2 new years together and he wants to hang with his friends. ofcourse i said yeah, because im not the controling type. well, even though i said yes, it makes me a little sad knowing that he doesnt want to spend it with me. its like, why cant i chill with his friends too? its not like i never had. do any of you guys think i should tell him how i feel? or do any of you think that im wrong for feeling the way i feel?
thanks for your time.
18/f
No, it's normal to over react about that, especially since you two have been together for a long time. Maybe somethings up. Or maybe he just wants to spend it with the guys and do guy stuff, you know? I think you should talk to him about it, but be respectful and hear him out. You don't need this to turn into a huge deal/fight. Just hear what he has to say but also tell him how you feel. It's normal feeling that way.
Hope I helped,
Emi*
(Rating: 5) thankss