i'm 14 i'm a freshman and i like to help people. i'm weird, i'm silly, and i'm funny. i like punk rock music and i like playing the guitar, piano, and bass. i like listening to music, and i am falling in love with a wonderful guy, but we're having some problems right now. my besterest friends in the whole world are daniel inman(susie), hannah rufer, kerrisa bath, caitlin mace, nicole fuson, chloe shepard, tory gaurnier, and hana crawford a.k.a. the toothfairy. if you wanna know more, or you just need advice my email is on my profile.
E-mail: uncle_arlo@hotmail.com
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Location: placerville california
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Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i have felt exactly like you many times, i've felt out of place and like no one cared, and i may be able to help you. here i go. ok, well how do you expect to ever solve any problems if you just want to run away from them? i never run away from my problems anymore, i just deal with them, and each time i've faced a problem and solved it my life has gotten better and better. i tried killing myself many times, i ran away from home once because my mom lied to me and said she was going to go rent movies and pick me up some soup and juice because i was sick, and instead she went to her EX boyfriends house, and wouldn't answer her phone! i was so mad, but running away did not do me any good, it just got cops looking for me and a lot of yelling. so instead of running away, the next time i waited for her to come home and told her how worried i was, and how much i had cried while wanting and needing her to come home. she finally stopped, and started spending time with me. then i started facing all of my problems that way, being braver, being stronger. so don't be a coward like the old me and run away, and hurt people and yourself, but instead be like the new me, and be brave and strong. please don't run away, there are people that care about you, you just don't see them because you're too busy focusing on the people that don't care. you only see what you want to see, so want to see people who care. i really hope i helped. if your problems persist, feel welcome to email me. my email address is on my advice column. good luck.
Sierra(arlo)
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