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Hey,
my name's Stephanie, 16 years old and i live in the UK. If you want my advice then i'll happily give it. If you don't agree with it then that's just tough, i say it how i see it.

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A couple of weeks ago I met a guy at my best friends party. Lets call hym "a" Hes so hot and so nice but he kept checking me out. Since we were in a limo everyone was giving lap dances to regeaton music. I gave one to a guy and then "a" wanted one from me. But then I found out he has a girlfriend AND I know who she is. So I didn't give him one because it didn't seem like the right thing to do and I would have felt guilty...so he was like darn. But now I find myself liking him. He has broken upp with his gf and i know I have the opportunity but he just seems like a real player to me and I don't want a guy like that. After all he wanted a lap dance from a girl when he has a gf! And he was like well she doesn't have to know...wouldn't you be hurt if you were his gf? And please don't give me advice "well thats the way guys are" or "alot of guys will do that" because that is sooo not true. I just don't know what to do...He doesn't know I like him and I'm not sure if I want him to because...idk..I just can't resist...I want to like him..I just don't wanna get hurt..but I wanna be happy too..
xo0x confused x0ox

This guy sounds like a real jerk and the fact is if he treated his ex this way he'd probably treat you the same way if you went out with him. You're right to feel cautious of this person and it's best to try and avoid him if possible. I think you should just let it pass, it wont be long before you fancy someone else, hopefully someone more trustworthy.

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(Rating: 5) thanx!
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