Gender: Female Location: texas Occupation: school Age: 15 Member Since: October 20, 2004 Answers: 24 Last Update: December 31, 2005 Visitors: 2208
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Sorry it's so long, but I think I might to need to tell a teacher or somebody, can you help me?
A friend told me earlier today, she made me pinky swear that I wouldn't tell a guidence counciler or anything... well she told me she's cutting, or like that she wants to start.
Then by 3rd period... 3rd block, whatever you call it, she said she talked to a friend and said that she decided she doesn't want to cut... I don't think she started, just she talked about wanting to cut, and she said she was suicidal, because she couldn't stand living with her mom, her parents are divorced, and he mom won't let her live with her dad, and her mom won't go to court & let her choose what she wants to do.
Can she change her mind from being suicidal, to having talked to somebody that fast, or should I tell one of my teachers... I have a teacher that I know I can tell anything to. What she made me promise is not to tell anyone, like from guidence or anything.
So what I'm asking is
1.)Is she really over it?
2.)Would I be breaking the promise (I don't care if I am or not, I just want to know if I'm breaking it. if I tell the teacher I mean.)
3.)And Should I tell the teacher?
(she told me around 7am, then around 12ish she told me she talked to a friend and won't cut, and doesn't think she's suicidal. She seemed happy when she told me.)
Thanks for all the help in advance, I appreciate all answers, even if they're rude. (link)
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i used to be a cutter but i stop. u shouldn't break the promise and tell someone cuz then she will hate you forever. i know i hate the person that called the cops on me because i was cutting. she will get over it if she hasn't yet. DON'T tell a teacher. they might seem like u can trust them but they are untrushable!! i know that for a fact!just talk to ur friend.
~natalie~
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Well, I tell this teacher EVERYTHING! she even knows that I have a drinking problem, and is trying to get over it. I'd trust this teacher with my life, and I'd just be asking the teacher, what would you do if a friend confided in you that she cuts... and see her answer.
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