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This is a very long question! So if you even READ the whole thing, THANK YOU!
Lets say my boyfriend's name is Randy. Me and Randy have been going out for.. 3 1/2 weeks or so. I love to hear from him, we can talk on the phone for hours. He's.. a partier.. I sometimes do stuff like that, but only on RARE occasions. After about 5 days of dating, a girl that hangs around with him tells me that she likes him, a lot. I'm not the jealous type, believe me. Now she's starting to say stuff like "Oh the stuff I'd do with Randy" Today he told me that he thought that she was hot, but he likes me better. So now I'm stressing out over that because both of them are partiers and stuff MIGHT happen if they are together at a party and I'm not. Randy tells me that he loves me and stuff, but both of them (him and that girl that likes him) seem very attracted to eachother.
How do I talk to him about it without seeming like I don't want him to be around her anymore. I don't want to be a control freak, and I don't want to seem like I don't have any trust in him, but he does have a history of cheating, and I don't want to be hurt. Thanks in advance if you answer my question

You need to tell him that she makes u uncomfortable. That you trust him but you dont trust her. And that you wouldnt want to lose him over someone like her. But make sure you tell him that ur not trying to control his life. Just that you dont like this chick.

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(Rating: 5) Ugh, we broke up last night and now they're going out today. He doesn't waste any times. Some guys really aren't sensitive to other people's feelings! We didn't do anything, so it's not like I'll cry over that.. person. Thanks, later
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