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hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 .. (link)
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Hunni, you never think that horrible things like that are going to happen, and its perfectly normal not to know how to handle this, because its really tough. You're in a really tough spot right now, and i'm incredibly sorry this happened to you.
My mom works in one of the best intensive care unit in the world. They get some of the worst cases across the globe, and most of those people are fine after a while (ok a really long time).
This may sound stupid, but don't be super scared if he doesn't remember you for awhile. Thats normal after a tramatizing accident.
As much as i hope he's going to be alright, don't set yourself up for it. Like really, he'll probably be fine, but just prepare yourself for the worst. You'll feel that much better when you find out he's alright.
Go visit him. As scary as it is (i know, it is really scary) going to see him, you may feel better afterward. Being with him may be very comfortig (and though he won't know it, or maybe he will) for both of you.
I really hope everthing is going to be alright. Best wishes. IM me if you ever need to talk. Yeah, i know you don't know me, but if you need someone to talk to, and theres no one else around for you, my SN is Tucanfullofholes.
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thanks so much for the advice .. it really means alot .. email me at babyash1669@yahoo.com so that we can still talk ..
please pray for his recovery
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