hey everyone! i'm from france. i'm in high school. i'm alright at giving advice so if you ever need any help i'll do the best i can! i'll check this pretty often so that i can be the best advice giver i can get, peace and love
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Last Update: February 1, 2006
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ok I like this one guy named Ben and he likes me also and weve been friends since the first day of school and Ive liked him since then well it slowly turned into love. And I still am in love with him. Sounds like nothings wrong right>> Problem I just got asked out by this guy named Ryan and I dont like him because most of my feelings are for Ben and Ben and Ryan are friends and Im going out with Ryan. Ryan is so much different from Ben. Ryan smokes pot, hes weird to hang around with, and im never happy around him
On the other hand Ben hes cute,funny, and Im happy when im around him, gives me hugs all the time!! And is such a sweetie. So this should be easy but its not!! I dumped Ryan yesterday (thursday) and got back together with him today OUT OF GUILT and then before 6th period I felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life!! AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I was planning on telling Ryan that I dont want to be his girlfriend because I dont know him all that well and WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY O i dont want to go out with you because Im in love with your friend even though u say you love me Ok bye! what should I do and I would like guys to answer this but girls are fine TOO!1
please dont delete this I really really need help
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hey! you shouldnt go out with ryan if you dont like him and like ben. just tell him that you've realized that you guys dont have much in common or something like that. you cant make yourself sad to make someone else happy, it may sound selfish, but life is short and you need to be as ahppy as possible. if you have a chance of being happy with ben, then go for it! i dont understand why you went out with ryan in the first place and why you went out with him again, its hard dumping people and its hard being dumped, but its a part of life, especially as teenagers. hopefully ryan will understand when you dump him if you do. if you want to talk mroe, my sn and e-mail are in my profile, hope i helped, good luck! peace and love!
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