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Q: Hey, theres this girl in my pe class and I think she might like me. Well, I kinda like her too though. She acts kinda like it and gives me hugs sometimes and stuff and jokes around with me and stuff, and she seems like she always brings the topic of Homecomming up to her friend, lets call her Jenny. Anyways so she always says to Jenny that sits next to her when we sit on numbers for role call that she needs a date for Homecomming. But... I'm kinda scared to ask her to Homecomming because I don't know what to do.. I mean I know you go out to dinner and stuff and the guy drives the girl... but I don't have a car yet do I have my dad or mom drive us to the restaurant and then to the dance? I know to get her flowers or a corsage... ugh I don't know what to do! Someone tell me what to do about this and what should I get her and pretty much walk me thru the date! I mean like I could go with my friends or her friends because she says to her friend that all her friends are going to this fancy restauraunt with their dates and she wont get to go unless she has a date... so who drives and stuff? What do I do.... Help, I'm 14/m.
Sorry if this was a little long.

You'll probably need to have mom or dad drive you, hehe, though my mother drove me and my boyfriend to homecoming until I had a car. I usually dated younger guys and had to be the one picking them up, lol! There is no set way you have to do things. Just ask the girl, believe me as one girl speaking for another, she wants you to ask her. Maybe she can come over for dinner at your house before going to the dance, since you don't have a car. The important thing is to just have fun. If you enjoy yourself, and maybe get a kiss, than that would be a good time to ask her to be your girlfriend.