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I have a friend...let's call her "Megan". Megan and I are pretty cool. We hang out at school, between classes and after school on occasions. I have no problem going places with her, spending the night at her place...stuff like that. We're pretty good friends. She just has this really annoying habit of always trying to ruin someone else's good time.

Like, in an argument, when she's wrong and you're right, she'll scramble for any possible reason to say you're still wrong. Or if something good happens to you, she'll always say something to make you feel terrible about it. I hope that makes sense. It bothers me a lot and I've tried telling her it's annoying, but she still does it.

I don't want to stop being friends with her. She's cool most of the time. This is just starting to get to me. Why can't she let anyone else have a little sunshine sometimes? :(

I have a friend just like that. Only, she's gotten alot worse since it started. She does anything to make you believe she's right, and she comes up with insane things to argue {or debate} about. It really gets on my nerves, and like you-- I tell my friend she gets annoying, and she gets really mad.

There's not much you can do but tell her that it's annoying, if she's still doing it, ask her what her problem is and WHY she does it.

She's probably jealous of things you have going on, and maybe she needs a little sunshine in her own life. Who knows?

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