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Q: Ok, im 7ft tall, and of course a guy. It seems like every time i approach a girl shes always so afraid of me. She never wants to talk to me and hold a convo. w/ me. When people do talk to me, they always ask how tall i am, then sit and stare. Why are girls so afraid of me? and how do you suggest i cure this problem, and maybe advise on how to keep the convo going w/o it dropping off at how big my feet are.
I recommend that you go find a tall girl! Not really tall, mind you, as I'm sure there aren't too many wandering about, but one around my height is great. I am 5'10" and always have felt like a beast around men because I towered over them in High School. It wasn't until I was a senior that the fellas finally passed me up. Tall men, like you, make me feel small and delicate, and that's a really nice feeling. If the shorties are too intimidated to give you time, nuts on them! Another solution is to become friends first. People are all naturally curious about things they don't see everyday, and are going to be in awe of you because they don't realize being tall is just as sensitive as other body differences. Would they walk up to a fat man and ask what he weighed? Of course not! I suggest dating friends who are already comfortable with you and aren't looking at your feet, but at your face and heart.

Thanks for the advise, you got a good heart and you sound trueful in your advisories

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