I am a 21 year old Sailor in the U.S.N. I am married. and also am a musician. The band thing is kind of falling apart right now..,.
Website: AFTERTAPS
Gender: Male
Location: Texas
Occupation: USN Aviation mechanic
Age: 21
Yahoo: navyenginemech
Member Since: September 16, 2004
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okay, ive had my guy best friend for like a year now, and he recently just got a gf, theyve been goin out now for like 4 months, he loves her, she loves him, etcetc...he usta REALLII like me ALOT in the past..even when he was with his gf, we tell eachother EVERYTHING, he even told me how he felt about me...then i didnt wanna fuck nething up for them so i backed off so he would kinda stop having these feelings for me...now everything is back to normal i think...we just like gradually started talking again and we are like how we usta be...this was acouple months ago, but the thing is, i THINK that im starting to have tiny feelings for him starting to form..ahh i dunno whut to do cause i think im kinda jealous now?? i have no idea how im feeling..i dunno whut to do/think..id appreciate if u helped, thanks =] (link)
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let me put a semi mature guys perspective on this... personally, if i were in a relationship, and truly in love, i probly wouldn't want to hear that someone i'm close friends with "likes" me or even has more than just a "like" for me... but hold on..... i'm not saying don't tell him..... you said you were really close and could tell eachother pretty much anything right? so you might be able to tell if he's really in love with the other..... now again don't jump on this.... you really have to separate your feelings for him from the situation if you don't want to lose the friendship. allow yourself some time to think about the way you feel about him. don't shut him out of your life, and don't try to jump into his business about his relationship. again, i'm not saying don't ask questions, just don't ask questions that are too personal, when the question hits your head you'll know if it's too personal. back to the situation.... first find out how he feels about her..... don't always take his first answer.......especially if they've had an arguement recently..... but really be a friend who is just curious..... and if he does love her truly, don't tell him and try to move on...... if you tell him even though he loves her.... he may become questionable about their relationship and may resent your actions because guys do stupid things when they question their own feelings..... but on the other hand if he openly says he's not sure how he truly feels about her, don't lead him into saying it, he has to say it on his own, then go ahead and tell him...... something beautiful might blossom....... but don't come crying if everthing turns to poo...... there are risks and the heart is a terrible thing to play with.... sorry if that didn't help.
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