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Im a dancer. I enjoi hanging with frens n talking on the fone.
Gender: Female
Location: Long Island
Age: 14
Member Since: August 26, 2004
Answers: 37
Last Update: December 5, 2004
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I have a friend who I like very much, but who has a habbit of asking me to call her because she's feeling low at really incovenient times. I want to be there for her, but it becomes problematic when I feel I can't fairly say no when she asks me to call for a few minutes because she's feeling low, even it's like 1am. If it really was a few minutes, it would be fine, but once she has me on the phone she's impossible to let go, because every time I talk about having to be up in the morning she talks about how people always seem to let her down when she needs them. I do want to be there for her, but I do need to sleep too, and I simply can't survive on talking till 2am or later every night to get up at 7am. How can I be firm about needing to get off the phone without offending her? (link)
sry i dont noe wut to say


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Thanks for bothering to reply, but it seems like a bit of a pointless response. Sorry.




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