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Q: hii.. im the gurl before that was askin about Nathan and smokin weed. i dumped him, but i got really stoned one night, and fell asleep.. and woke up naked but he wasn't there. I know we had to of had sex, cuz i was REALLLLLLLY sore down there.. and was bleedin but i didnt have my period, now i think im pregnant cuz i havn't got my period this month... i am s0o0o0 scared!! i've been non-stop crying.. like im only 14 years old!!! and i cant believe that happened... he is denyin anything happened but i dont believe him. Please, pretty please give me some advice on what to doo!! please i need help, i ratee!!!

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scared and want help!
The first thing you need to do is go to the doctor and get checked out. Not only to find out whether or not you are pregnant, but also to make sure you don't have any STD's. If he did this to you, then he probably did it to someone else before. Hopefully you are not pregnant, but if you are then he won't be able to deny what happened. Press charges!!! He's a rapist and he should be in jail. You should also contact a rape crisis center. Even though you can't remember what happened, it doesn't change the fact that you were raped, and you need some counseling to help you deal with that. I wish you all the best.

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