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Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him Bob. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i cant say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!

x0x signed confused n depressed

Confused and Depressed,
You obviously felt love for this person, the feeling that cannot be explained through words other than perfect.. No matter what you do or how much you try to forget about him, memories always come back and make you want more..Think of why he broke up with you first.. What happened in your relationship to make it not work? Age difference is not a factor, so you dont have to worry about that.. This is an on again off again kind of situation, And with him going away it doesnt make it any easier on you to feel for him; If you have feelings for this guy, you need to do something about it.. None of this on again off again stuff because it loses touch and time that you two could be spending together! He told you he had feelings for you and you have feelings for him, so you 2 have to make this relationship work and be strong and healthy.. It sounds like you 2 are good friends and thats the best way to make a relationship..No one can ever compare to your first love..(if hes the first person youve felt like that before with) and the feelings wont go away without time.. If you like him and your willing to put your trust in him giving him the power to destroy you but trusting him enough that he wont; then this guy is obviously worth it and you should go through with him..Dont lose touch with him, thats whats ruining the bond between you too.. Good Luck, i hope everything works out well..

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(Rating: 5) thank you soo much! ur responce really made me think bout stuff n i think i kinda get things a tiny bit better now!
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