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i am a 17 year old female who is a good friend. i like to help people, and i love music. i am very involved in my school, i know a wide variety of things, so i hope to help someone!

Juelz

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Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches!

the best thing i can tell you is i know how you feel. i have this friend who always ends up STEALING all my guy friends. but there was this one in paticular. we were "dating" for a while and he dumped me to hang with her. so it is painful when a guy you like goes for your best friend. but i can tell you that i am way past it and deeply care about another guy, and it is a better relationship than the one i woulda had with the one guy! so, move on, date new guys, cuz there is NO USE waiting around for a guy who doesnt care about you. and flirting with a guy-pal can be fun. but sometimes, not a good idea, trust me, i did this one too, and we ended up not talking again...EVER! so it is a bad thing some times, and soemtimes can lead you to a new love (like it did me) so just get otu there and flirt your young heart away! there are plenty of guys you can have, if they think you are not with your guy-friend! so appearing single is a must! :D

hope i helped you a lot! good luck! and let me know how things turn out ok?

Juelz

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