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Q: I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks
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ok i know what u mean u can be a good person or be a bad person n u want to help out the ppl around u n if u do bad things then its liek a waste of time on helping ppl if u anit even helping ur self but anyway u can make more new friends at student council n all taht stuff u can hang out wit those girls n u can hang out wit other good ppl that want to be role models i mean its ok to hang out wit guys im a guy n i like to hang out wit gurls to c what they like but its liek if u want to be a good person u have to hang out wit good ppl n like ur friends there just kinda using u if they talk to u when they so u sould talk to them when u feel like t n its like n ur postion is good a role model is a good thing but what kind of role model n u seem like a good person n ur b/f lucky to have u he stuck wit u threw things n u should also chill wit ppl in ur council or body n u can still party once in a while but thats what i think
hope i helped
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E-mail: Gender: Male Location: B town IL Occupation: help ppl Age: 15 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: August 6, 2004 Answers: 43 Last Update: March 13, 2005 Visitors: 2929
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