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grr.. its soo annoying. My dad always lets people we dont even know like stay in our house and in our room. I guess we get involved with that through our church and stuff.. but ne way my mom does bible study and of course all the lazy people have to make it at our house every week. And they come early too! It stresses my mom out but she insists it doesnt bother her... and now my dads lending my laptop out to somebody for a week... and my regular comp like died on me and doesnt work... i need my laptop and he wont even give up his and my moms... no b/c hes not suffering cause he doesnt even use the computer. He always says hes helping people but than he spares me.... and everytime I try to confront him he gaves me an attitude and says Im not loving or sharing or giving or something like that. And I am all these things.. but common! You can let someone borrow like a T-shirt, a fruit bowl, but you dont lend your LAPTOP.... and also its really annoying cause during finals month I had stupid people I didnt know staying in my house... 8 people... who at 10 o clock at night were screaming at their little kids... while i was trying to rest up. And also they had a 6 month old... and this hasnt been the 1st or last time... at least he hasnt done that recently.. but giving up my laptop. Put it this way nothings mine is this house... I own not one thing... my room... FORGET IT! I dont own it.. b/c I dont have the last say in what happens with it or who uses it. How the hell do i end the torture... I own nothing in my life.. the only thing I have control over is my actions. Im not a control freak but i would like a bit of control... help if you can.. but give it some thought b/c I really need some HONEST SERIOUS MAJOR HELP.

Seems like you found a computer you can use.
First off how old are you? If you're old enough to move out, get a job and do it. Religious freaks are all messed up, be glad your dad doesnt beat you. Also these people are probably a lot worse off then you so cut them some slack. Try talking to your dad, explain to him that you're tired of this bullshit, ask him to put at least half the effort that he puts into making these people feel better, into you.

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(Rating: 4) well the thing is im not old enough to move out. Trust me, if i were, Id be on the other side of the country. I'm extremely independant and not lazy I just need the damn computer. And theres nothing wrong with religion... I actually like my religion... they're not religious freaks they just get responsible for random shit through being at our church. Whatever happened to just going to church, giving a donation, and leaving. Why does it have to be doing favors more than going for the reason you have a religion... i mean i just dont get it... but you sound cool enuff so if you want to help me more... IM me on x mercy me 14 x

thx xoxo


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