Member Since: July 31, 2004 Answers: 3 Last Update: August 11, 2004 Visitors: 905
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I am 18/f...and i have been really confused lately about my ex boyfriend (which is still my best friend). We were best friends for 5 years before we started dating..and we were on and off for about a year and a half. He was my first serious relationship. I am very much in love with him but we had to break up because he moved 2 hours away for college. We both still have feelings for each other and we agreed that when we are located closer together again we will probably get back together. My problem is that he is looking to date other people, and he thinks i should do the same, but i just cant get him out of the picture and i dont want him out of the picture. He is the only person i really want to be with. How am i supposed to handle this? I cant like other people when i am still in love with him, and i know i am just going to be extremely jealous when he starts dating if i dont have any one. Does anyone have suggestions on what i should do to move on or meet new people or whatever! I just need help. (link)
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Dating other people doesn't mean you're moving on. Judging from your description, I think I can safely assume you're in real love. While on your "break" keep youself busy, whether it be though dating or a hobby. It's not healthy to sit and just put all your energy in missing someone. And when you do, maybe write him a letter, or call.
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Well we see each other quite often anyway. I actually just hung out with him this evening. I know it will come to a screeching hault though once school starts back up though because we both have work and college. You have probably given me the best advice so far. That is really what i need to do. Its just hard to bring myself away from him ya know? Thanks.
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