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E-mail: Cherchik@ptd.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 14
AIM: Brunettewonder34
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: July 17, 2004
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Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Dave* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza (link)
Aww Liza, im sorry to hear about this! Break-ups are the really hard, i know how you feel. Well if he was that much of a jerk and after 16 months of dating he just calls and says he found someone else and says oh well? I dont think hes worth all the pain you are putting yourself through. And dont say you wish you were dead, I know at the time it feels like there is nothing else worth living for because he meant sooo much to you... But wanting to not be alive over a guy isn't worth it, there is plenty of other things that are worth living for, and i know right now you really want him back, but from what it sounds like.. hes a complete jerk ending it like that.. that was really rude and didnt consider your feelings at all and didnt care, i know this sounds hard right now when i say try to get over him, believe me i know you feel like its not possible right now, trust me i really do... but you possibly just might be better off without him.. its going to take a lil bit to get over him. But in time it will.. I know thats probably not what you wanted to hear.. but also try talkin to him about waht changed his mind and everything, who knows maybe he will end up wanting you back.. just try to talk things out wtih him and ask him why and everything if trying to get a better guy doesnt sound good to you.. Hope i helped hun...



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