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I'm an energetic, funky, honest, unique, cutesy, wild, fun, sporty, with-it girl who will always try and give you an answer. I've done quite a few sports, and would say I know a lot about make-up, hair, sports, fashion, decorating, cleaning, having friends, sexual health, and a lot more. You can ask me about ANYTHING! :) I have awesome friends that I always (and love to) hang out with. I'm going to be a junior and I can't wait!

Also, I don't delete any of my answers. If you'd like to bash on me because I have a high rating, because you think I delete them, that's your problem, not mine. I'm not going to answer any questions that aren't looking for advice, or information that they're actually wondering. :)

Here are some awesome bands. All of them are rock, but I do like some rap and pop!:

ACDC, Yellowcard, Muse, Hoobastank, 311, The Doors, The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Guns and Roses, Alexisonfire, Agent Orange, Taproot, Social Burn, Tenacious D, A Static Lullaby, AFI, Switchfoot, Bob Marley, Brand New, Bright Eyes, Gary Jules, Goo Goo Dolls, Puddle of Mud, Marilyn Manson, Korn, Velvet Revolver, Slipknot, Rascal Flats, Led Zepellin, Lost Prophets, Mudvayne, Nirvana, Senses Fail, Sugar Cult, The Calling, The Clash, The Cure, Dashboard Confessional, Thrice, The Eagles, The Rasmus, Offspring, Sex Pistols, Trapt, Taking Back Sunday, Weezer, The Shins, Something Corporate, Modest Mouse, John Mayer, Autumn to Ashes, Thursday, Live, The Get Up Kids, Janes Addiction, Eve 6, Matchbox Romance, Coheed and Cambria, Blindside, Reggie and the Full Effect, With Broken Wings, Weezer, Incubus, White Light Motorcade, The Descendants, Def Leppard, Auf Der Maur, The Killers, The Stills, Grateful Dead, Reliant K, Pearl Jam, Morissey, Sevendust, Blur, Midtown, Atreyu, Death Cab for Cutie, Dead Poetic, Oasis, The Used, Bury Your Dead, Away From Here, Cursive, and Sublime. I know I missed a few, but oh well. :) Those are just the rock bands. ;)

Oh and Wilmer...you're my best friend and I love you!! No one can ever change that. I LOVE YOU MOOOOOOORRRRRRRRE! Baha, beat that! :) Wil, you're the greatest.
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Hey guys,
Well heres the problem. My best friend of like forever, up and decides that smoking is more important than our friendship. it really hurts me to see her do it because i know the pain it caused her when her grandmother died of cancer just a few short years ago. She goes on about how she doesnt need a supervisor or someone telling her what to do, but i keep telling her that i only get on her back about it because i care. she doesnt seem to realize that im only trying to help. however, my help cant always be the answer. i am myself, an advice giver on this website, but sometimes you just need others' advice. if anyone has any advice, or anything at all i could say to my friend to help her, please let me know. im scared for her, and also for our friendship. please someone help me. (link)
Honestly, I'd be really grateful to have you as a friend. And I'm not sucking up either. You getting on her back is exactly what she needs. She should realize how you DO really care and also realize how smoking is SO horrible for her! She's gonna get yellow teeth, tons of wrinkles, bad lungs, and maybe even cancer if she keeps this habit up for a long time! I know that sounds extreme, but smoking is SUCH a hard habit to quick. My grandmother finally stopped smoking after 30 years...and I was amazed she hadn't gotten seriously ill from it. I know this sounds like it'll ruin your friendship, but if her mom/dad doesn't already know about your friend's BAD problem, they needa been informed. You as a friend can't do everything. Then be up and honest with her, and say how you're worried your friendship will end. Say EXACTLY how you feel! Say just what you told us advice people. Say how much it hurts you to see her smoke. Tell her that you're worried that she's just going to keep smoking and ruin her health. Tell her how much she means to you as a friend, and losing her because of cigarettes is crazy. Your friend obviously doesn't appreciate you trying to help. Here's just one website I found to (hopefully!) help.crazyworld=truth

http://www.thetruth.com/index.cfm?

I really hope that you're friend realizes the dangers she's putting on her life. It might not be within a few years, but if she keeps it up, it'll all start showing. I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend that's trying to help her. I hope I somewhat helped! Please rate me.

Sincerely, Cammie


Rating: 5
thank u so much, you really helped me. i rated u 5 because u truly helped me. if i ever post other questions, please answer them. if u ever need advice,i'll be here. thanks again!




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