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After a while you learn the subtle
difference between holding a hand and
chaining a soul, And you learn that
love doesnt mean leaning and company
doesnt mean security, And you begin to
learn that kisses arent contracts and
presents arent promises, And you
begin to accept your defeats with your
head up and your eyes open, with the
grace of an adult, not the grief of a
child And you learn to build all your
roads on today because tomorrows ground
is too uncertain for plans. After a while
you learn that even sunshine burns
if you get too much.
So plant your garden and decorate your
own soul, instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.

advice

My boyfriend thinks I'm dirty and weird, cos I like porn films and magazines. He thinks it's just for men. Am I dirty and weird, or is he being a prude?

To what extent do you like porn films and magazines? Does it rule your life? Like, you cannot concentrate on anything until you satisfy yourself by watching porn? Or you just like it, simple as that?

Because if it governs you then I have to say it does sound weird and a bit erratic. But if you like it like any other normal people, then its ok.

You're not dirty and weird like your boyfriend says you are. Maybe he's just feeling a little insecure that you're paying attention to some hot guys in these adult materials. Take the time to sit with him and have a talk about it. As I have said before, nothing beats honesty in whatever situation you maybe into.

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