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Okay, here goes. My best friend and I have been friends for 14 years (We're both 19 now). We've always been there for eachother, always were together, etc. But about 3 months ago, I introduced her to one of my other friends, and then she completely changed her lifestyle and appearance (as in the way she dresses, acts, and stuff) to be just like that person and she's not the person I used to know anymore. Our friendship started getting weaker, so I changed my style to be like hers, and our friendship got to the way it used to be again. But about a month ago, I didn't like my "new lifestyle" so I changed back to my old on, and now our friendship got weaker. I've tried as much as I can to bring it back, I talk to her and try to fix our friendship, but it's not working, she gives me the "sorry attitude" and then blows me off. Now we're hanging on by a thread and it seems the more I talk to her, the farther we grow. I know this is because I introduced her to that person (her new best friend), and I'm starting to regret that deeply. They're inseparable now, and I'm feeling so awful because I just lost my best friend of 14 years to this. Now they spend every waking hour together and I mean nothing anymore. (link)
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Confront her about the situation. Explain to her you miss the old times & that the way she is now isn't helping the friendship. Tell her that you wouldn't wna see ya'lls relationship go down the drain just bc of one new friend you introduced to her. Not telling her how you feel is gna make the situation worse, but by telling her at least she'll know their are some problems in ya'lls friendship. Sort out the whole ordeal :0)
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