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Member Since: May 31, 2004
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Last Update: May 31, 2004
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I have recently found out that my son and his family attend openhouses, birthday parties, and weddings. They bring a card, but no gift of any kind. They say they can't afford it, but I know they can spend money other ways, in needless toys, fast food, etc. I told my son that I thought this was tasteless. Their turn will come soon and people will remember. People will see their material things and will not understand why even a $5 bill couldn't be put in a card.

Am I wrong feeling this way? (link)
it is your son's descison on how to spend his money..you can inform him how you feel but still the descision comes down to him and his family..money doesnt make someone happy anyways..its the thought of the card..the thought of someone taking time out of their life to care about you


Rating: 3
i don't agree with you at all. yes i left it alone after the one time mention of it. even $3 in a card would show some type of respect. after all you are there enjoying the party and eating their food.




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