I'm a honest and considerate person. I've been told I have good values and common sense. I like to help people and will do my best to give you advice without being rude or insulting. If I think you need professional help, I will say so. I think I would be best with the following categories:1.) Marriage and Relationships 2.)Parenting 3.) General advice about life
Gender: Female
Location: Gardena, California
Occupation: Homemaker (at the moment) mother
Age: 36
AIM: To help anyone with a problem
Member Since: February 21, 2004
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Last Update: January 26, 2006
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me and my friend clint went skateboarding at vans skatepark. while we were skating we noticed two girls watching us. so we go up to them and start to talk. we got their screen names and said goodbye. i liked both but my friend only liked one. so we talked to them online and became fiends. then my friend asked amanda out (amanda is the one that he liked) and the next day i asked jenah out. me and jenah went out but when i would call her amanda would be at her house and i would end up talkin to amanda. then me and amanda became really close friends. we knew more about eachother than we knew about her boyfriend and my girlfriend. then me and her fell in love with each other. i broke up with jenah not cause of her but she was one of the reasons. i didnt want her to break up with clint cause she loves him, but she loves me also. now she says she cant even be my friend cause she is afraid that she will fall for me even more. she wont talk to me and it really hurts. she was even thinkin about suicide and so was i. what should i do? i need her in my life and i told her this, and she even said she needs me but she cant handle me and clint at the same time. please tell me what to do. (link)
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I agree with what that first person said. Please don't do anything drastic, like suicide. You are young, and things like this happen sometimes, it's not that tragic. You and Amanda need to sit down and talk it out with the other two. Be calm, and don't blame anyone. Just explain what happened and how you two feel about each other. And if your friend can't handle it, and you really want to keep him as a friend, then the girls will have to go. I know it's hard, but friendship is very important, and there will be other girls in your life. Maybe it won't come to that. You can just swap girlfriends and that will be that, or move on. Good luck, and if you need further advice, write me. In any case, I'd like to know what happens. Take Care!
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thanks for the advice i'll try to have a talk with them about it. i just hope that he doesnt get to upset. thanks again for the advice. i'll be sure to tell u what happens.
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