I give out the most logical answers to those who seek answers to their question. I give my e-mail, AIM sn and ICQ # for those who have questions they'd rather not share with everyone who looks at this site. I also enjoy joking around. I feel if a situation is dire, a little humour is medicinal. Even if you're stuck in a serious dilemma, a little laugh to take your mind off is good for you. Enjoy my humour.
P.S.- I may not have a favourite category, but certain questions I will not get involved in due to stupidity, or the fact that some would not like my answers because I say what is moral and right, not what society views as okay.
P.P.S.- I would like some non-relationship questions to come my way, I do welcome them, but a little change would be nice. No one hold back a question, but anyone with a non-love-life question please send it to me. I mean, I know I'm not really a gardener or musician or etc., but anything'll do.
E-mail: logicman001@icqmail.com
Location: Guess.
Occupation: Hero.
ICQ: 129274057
AIM: logicman231163
Member Since: February 22, 2004
Answers: 87
Last Update: April 13, 2004
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Hey there Logic-Man-
I've always been shy, about everything. And now it's high school. There's this girl that I reall, really, really like. We are incredibly close friends...in fact, I'd ventrue to say we're best friends. I suppose that's where my problem comes in. I fell like in today's society, I CAN'T jsut be friends. I feel immense pressure to ask her out...but I can't. I don't want to ruin our friendship over somethign petty. But...I don't think I can hold out on the pressure for much longer. Any advice? (link)
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Where the **** is this pressure coming from? Today's society just wants you to have sex, nobody said anything about being more than friends.
Anyway, just do what I do, give the source of the pressure the bird and say 'screw you'. Yeah, I slipped myself, but in all honesty, I have 2 personalities, it doesn't count.
Whenever you feel that pressure, think about how wonderful it is just being friends and ask yourself what possible future you guys have. Try to imagine you two being boyfriend/girlfriend and imagine what it would be like. Do you really want that? My girl at least plays D&D and watched anime (and Doctor Who), but you need to ask what exactly her qualities are that you'd want in a girlfriend. If that list is short or non-existant...
So whenever you feel the pressure, just remember what Logic-Man would do to you if you asked her out based on imaginary pressure.
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