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well i got this idea from courtney weycamp, but the main reason i made this is because ive been through ALOT of things in my life- and i wanna help other people anything from guys/girls to family i dont care just tell me and i'll try to give you the best advice!
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hey bailey! well me and this girl just broke up but i still really like her. but she likes another guy and just me as a friend now so should i keep likeing her or just like her as a friend too??? (link)
well, if you guys broke up them its time to sorta move on. although you really like her, you might have to let go and float about to someone else bigger and better and mroe right for you but you should of course still stay friends with her!:)


Ok, so theres this guys right, hes a little older than me and like, i like him A TON and it seems like he likes me 2, and we've hung out before and we like did stuff... But like i dont know what to do cuz he tells me that we can be gf/bf in high school, but i dont know if i should just let him go on to his own grade, or go out with him? (link)
alright...so do you really like him? because if you do then you should go out with him..age shouldnt matter with your relationship because if you really like him then you guys will be fine regardless...so take a chance and talk to him about it and if you like him then go out with him and dont worry about what other people think.


Hey bae, well i have this friend and shes doing really bad things with guys that i dont like, and when i hang out with her she makes me look like a slut, like shes making me hang out with guys that i dont wanna hang out with and shes like making me kiss or even makeout with guys that i dont even like, shes like controlling me and i dont like it, but im affraid of how she will react! (link)
alright..well first of all, it may seem like she controls you, but you can only control yourself. If you dont like the things your doing around her, stop yourself, SOON! If she has a bad rep her rep could rub off on you, and that wouldnt bee good. If you dont like these guys, put your foot down and be like, " i dontr really like the situations you put me in" and if shes your real friend, she should understand!


hello bailey, i'm just surfing the web, and typing in random things and your site popped up! okay so i wanted to ask you a question. meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeow. licious of course. your a babe (i saw ur pic) wow. like omg. so hot. hello, hottie on the loose. you must be very popular with the gentlemen. so. my. question. is. how. do. you. do.? i am a random weirdo, signing off. (link)
okayy um your sweet then arnt you? and im great thanks for asking!:) but please dont leave retarded stuff unless you really need advice..


bailey-

what do i do if i feel like i want to break away from one of my really good friends..this person is my like best friend but i feel theres just some qualities about them i dont like somtimes they flip out on me for no reason and dont treat me very nice they also take advantage of me for things and i feel like they are using me...i have no idea what to do because im sick of being treated like this! can you help? thanks so much (link)
hey! ok..i felt like this with a firend of mine, it was really bad, and i kept it inside and i put up with her but you NEED to talk to her and let her know, but do it in a friendly way sit her down and be like, i really feel like your taking advantage of me, but dont accuse her because that just makes the situation worse..and i hope everything really does work out! sorry this is so short but i have to go!!
love bailey


aww bae this is soo cute haha!! you are so nice and gorgeous and deserve the best in life!! You give such good advice and have helped me alot before with ur advice!! hope ur havin an awesome summer and had a sweet time in mexico!! I LOVE YOU BAILEY!!

>>*Sarah K* (link)
SARAH you are the sweetest girl ever, im not kidding tghats really sweet...youre gonna go so far in life with your awesome personality and stuff!! haha your cd player is pimp, im in mexico wohooo I LOVE YOU SARAH!
we shall hangout when i get back of course!
love baebae


hey bae, ok well i like have a lot of friends, but i feel like i'm not like totally like "part of a clique of friends" like i kinda used to be but then they kinda like stopped being my friend so i like left them and went to a new group of friends, but im like still kinda friends with my old group too, but i feel like i can only hang out with my new group of friends if i hang out with the whole group like i cant just hang out with one person just us two. like they have nevr invited me to hang out with just them and i dont know what to do. thanx. (link)
Hey! thats exactly how i am too, i know how you feel! What i did was i found the people wo were my good friends, new or old, but the ones who meant the most to me and were my true friends. Im not sure if youre in our grade, but it tends to be sort of clicky, all grades are! If youre hanging out with people who you cant be yourself, then thats the people you should hang out with, and thats what i did, im not saying you cant hang out with the tgroup of new people, but stick with your most truest friends...!
PS im in mexico! wahoo!!


alright, so i just started to hang out with this guy and the first time that i have met him was when he was going out with a friend of mine... while they were going out i really didnt want them to, but now i like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back and if my friend finds out she will kill me! this kid is so hot and nice and everything and before we left seeing each other he told me that if i didnt go to this pary he wouldnt either bcuz he wouldnt have fun and he just said a few other things... idk what to do HELP! (link)
wow..thats like woah! ok so here is what you should do...of COURSE follow your heart- but as hard as it may be sit down with your friend and be like "ok, im sorry i like him "..your friend doesnt own him anymore, but she may still have feelings towards him . If she doesnt want you seeing him because of your friendship -then hes sorta off limits for the time being, but she should say no you cant date him for the right reasons, not out of pity or jealousy...but i hope everyhting works out for you!!:)


ok..so there's this guy that i like...but he seems like he is way too "cool" for me. He hangs out with all the "popular" people...what should i do? (link)
hmm... i think what you need to do is get to know him really well alone, what he is like without hsi friends. Im not kidding you, ive even felt like that before im sure a TON of people have, but if you like him a lot, try hanging out with him like with some of your friends- and if hes a jerk to you when hes around his friends you know that your worth more than that!


can u tell me the exact link for where i can download apple sauce? thanks !! (link)
hahah apple sauce? SURE! http://sidedish.allrecipes.com/az/DlicispplSc.asp

theres the recipe...umm and here is your advice!


ok, so i am going out with this guy and i want to break up with him but i just cant...how should i ? (link)
well, i have a friend not kidding who is in the same position! If you dont like him...you need to break up with him. It will hurt more for him to be lead on by a fake relationship than for you to call it quits. I know it will be hard, but jsut tell him "I'm sorry, but this isnt right", and sit down and talk to him, dont do it on the phone or online- then he would be just more confused...but good luck!:)


Hi bailey. what do you do if your friend bailey is so gorgeous and funny and pretty and i can't believe its summer. YAYYYY. oh, and what if the pistons lose? i think i will go into great depression. what shall i do? lol. i love you bailey. (link)
AWW haha well THANK YOU! if the pistons lose...geeze, that would SUCK! they whole world would go into depression...so i'll go into depression wiht you, whoever you are, i love you as well:)


If you like a guy... but don't reallly know him what should you do? I mean, you see him sometimes and even hang out but how do you get him to notice you or know that he likes you back? (link)
okay, so my friend had the same scenario a little while ago...since its summer, just take a chance! hang out with him like sometimes one on one, and just really get to know him. If you feel something like its right, then you need to say something. Be like- ive really gotten to know you well this summer _____. or something, because the worst thing you can do is not ever let him know- not knowing that he might love you back! so just hang out with him as much as possible and get to know him as muchy as you can.


blah blah blah blah blah and on new years day... guess who this is
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thats a great question, hmm not a clue?


if you im a chick and you say hey and they say hi, doesnt that mean that they dont like you very much aka theyre just like hi you know?? (link)
hmm good question. well it depends who the girl is first of all, because she might jsut be going through PMS if you know what i mean! or she just simply might not wanna talk to you at the time, but you should ask her if shes okay or something! hah peter...




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