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Q: ok me and this guy are really good friends but i kinda like him... i think sometimes he likes me 2 but im scared that if i tell him it will ruin our friendship
ariana- who is he i'll get it out of him

Q: omg help me! i like this guy a lot and i don't want to like him!!! But i can't help it and he keeps asking me for a hug and i want to give him a hug but i dont want to..what should i do?? im like addicted to him!!!
ariana- if you're addicted to him then give him a hug. I mean come on, you like him.

Q: so ariana how should i show off my six pack with out being show offy ( this is another part of the six pack question )
this one i can answer to:
jordan- well since the fall just started swimming pools are out of the question maybe in gym how u change your shirt wear like a sweatshirt and take it off and most of the time shirts stick to sweatshirts so yea


ariana- if you have a sixpack, tell everybody because it's not showoffy it's hot f.y.i it depends who you are.

xoxo

Q: Ariana:
This is a question for a girl
ok i have a six pack but no one knows about it
because last time i had my shirt off i didn't have one
would more girls like me if they knew i had 1???
PLz answer
!!!!!! Yeah girls would like you more. Well at least i would like you more. So okay your answer if defintely yes.

xoxo

Q: I am going out with this guy and he pays no attention to me.in his past relationships he spent all his time with his ex's.but i really like him a lot.and i dont want to break up with him or confront him either.what should i do????HELP ariana and jordan!!
jordan- well if you dont want to confront him or break up with him:
he might feel that you are ignoring him so try paying a lot mroe attention to him and it should work or you just might have to live with it


ariana- whenever I go out with someone it's awkward so I usually just dump them. No offense to any that I've been out with, but it's true. You have to say something unless you just want to have your relationship go into the trash. Kay?

xoxo

Q: JORDAN!

We don't have any classes together! I never see you. Do you ever go to QO games? We need to chill out together. I bet you don't even know who this is =] Well, please respond.
i do go to QO games and we dont need to chill out until i know who you are. LOL

Q: jordan and ARIANA-

i have a problem.there is this kid at my school and he told me that for his bat-mitzvah or how every u spell it he was rididng in a limo and every one else has to ride in the smelly rinky dink of a bus but i dont want to bececause this one time me and my two friends were on one of the eyre busses and there was a boogie on the seat in front of my friend. man good times. what should i do to convince them so i dont ride on a boggie bus sinecrly-fuhgvdifgkju fyghdg
ok u are a spaz


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Q: wuts the best way to tell someone that u dont like any1 (and its true )
jordan- well just say in a serious tone I swear that i dont like anyone. (in a serious tone)

Q: ok so me and my friend both like this girl... but he has the better chance............. wut should i do
Well try to do everything better thAN him. But if she doesn't even talk to you then just give up. haahaha
xo -A.R

Jordan- Well you have to find out who the girl likes and if you guys are good friends then you will probably laugh about it

Q: so im like a realy good a friend with this person... but over the summer they changed a whole lot and now im confused if they shhould still be my friend because there doin some pretty weird things.. JORDAN AND ARIANA HELP A FRIEND OUT
answer from jordan: well if they changed and are doing W_E_R_I_D things then they might not be your friend and if you dont want them to be your friend now that they changed then dont be there friend but if you still want to be there friend then you might just have to accept that and still be there friend i suggest that you still be there friend because have you changed over the summer? most people will change with time and that is ok so still be there friend.


ariana- Well if the things they're doing are extremely weird and like bad, then talk to them about it. But if they're like on drugs don't be they're friend.
xox

Q: heyy Ariana...ok soo last year i went out wit a person.. but this person never really liked me..they always liked someone else.. this year were friends but i still have a hard time frogiving this person about ( i guess it was kinda like cheating on me)... but i still want this person to be my friend.. Jordan and ariana .. wut do i do
Well just to let you know the additional info you added wont be displayed on the site so I will add it for you.
Additional Information added by the asker: PS this is really cool... you guys helping failures like me.

( i know what we do is awesome )

Jordans answer: (ariana will add her answer later) Well has this person said sorry? maybe you could talk to her that your still upset about wut happened last year and if she apoligizes you can say you forgive her. but be sure to add not to tell anyone and that in school there wont be an awkward silence. I hate that.lol Then you guys can still be friends and your not a failure you went out with someone last year how many people did the whole year like 6 so yea no failure. lol. well thats wut jordan has to say then ariana will add later. Good LUck and if you need more help just ask!


Arianas answer- Oh wow sounds like something I would do. Just be friends with them if they're nice, but if you guys broke up about something really bad, then just talk to them about it.

Q: so i'm hanging out with a couple of girls more than i used to and my other friends are getting jeaouls. jorda and ariana what should i do???

- are they really my friends?
jordan-This is from jordan ariana will add later:
They might be your friends but they might not. They might be your friends and want to stay your friends but they might just not be your friends anymore if they were TRUE TRUE friends then they would understand that friends dont last forever. Now on what to do well you can tell them basically wut i said up there

ariana- If you don't hang out with them at all anymore then they have a right to be mad. But if you are hanging out with them both, just talk to the girls that are jealous. Some of my friends are the same way and jordan btw ur answer does not make sense at all.
xo

Q: my friends are sooooo jealous of me and 2 other grls hanging out with another friend. its getting really annoying, if i tell them they get mad and act all hurt. should i end our friendship or go to guidance. HELP ME

~from grl with stupid friends
You should totally confront them about it. Don't be afraid of them, they are the ones that should apologize. If it doesn't work then just end the friendship because they arent real friends.
ROCK ON
xoxoxo,
A.R.

Q: Hey again, it's me..well the guy told me at lunch today that when he wasn't in school one day and when he was missing the class I have with him, he said he really missed me. But it kind of sounded real and it kind of sounded like he was joking..and I'm sorry what I said about like Dr.Phil..or whatever
Answer from ariana: omgg thats so cute. anyways he obviously likes you so if you like him back just hint that you do and he'll ask you out(if he's not chicken) and then itll be so cute! Bye!!!
Love ya-A.R

Q: Ok so I like this guys A LOT! But he likes this girl and the girl likes him back. It always seems like he likes me.But I don't know if he does or not. What should I do? Please don't say "ask his friends..blah blah blah" because if you haven't noticed..that almost always never works..Oh and don't say ask him yourself either..please give me some REAL advice before I go to like Dr. Phil or somthing..
well you yourself can wait a little and see how he does with the other person if he flirts with you a lot and really acts like he likes you well then he might like both of you i know someone who likes two people ask again in a few days and give the update

Q: my friends are jealous of me hanging out with other peeopl(so annoying) what in gods name shall i do?
well, you can say that were still friends and that they can hang out together?

Q: Jordan! Wadd up! Okay so like omg theres this like totally annoying girl at school! Shes one of my really close freinds but she reallllllllyy gets on my nerves! Wat do i do!?
p.s do i smak her?

From ur_______
physical stuff is never good u can get in trouble well if you still want to be friends just tell her in a nice way to chill out and if you dont want to be her friend anymore then ignore her and avoid her

Q: im just way too boy crazy..what should i do?
think about other things i guess

Q: ok so there are these two guys that i liked all of last year. one has a girlfriend and the other one doesnt. i think i like both of them again but i dont know if i should. because they both hurt my feelings pretty bad. and they both really act like they like me..what should i do? should i like them or not?
Well if they both hurt your feelings, why try again?

Q: lets say i like this girl and she problry doesnt like me back i used to like her but she knew then and now i like her again what should i say to her
well start as friends. then try and find out if she likes you by asking yourself or having one of your friends ask if she likes you

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