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Q: On my bus the older kids are mean to my best friend. They always steal her stuff. Like yesterday she had a gameboy with her and was playing sims and this kid stole it and wouldn't give it back until she gave him gum. She had to jump some seats to get it back. Then today she wouldn't give him gum again so he started stabbing her with a needle. He treatened to stab me with it if I didn't move so he could get inm our seat. They my best friend threw the gum out the window and he and his friends started cursing her off and trying to cut her with it. I want to find a way to help but I don't know how. What should I do?

you should write a note to the driver or principal or teacher or some adult. You should show it to them and hold it up and say "You know what this is? A note to an adult asking you to be written up". The same thing happened to me and my friend did that and they stopped. Good luck! ~Kylie~

Q: ok so my best friend likes this guy and i was like o ok but i didn't know him. well tonight we hung out with him all night and now i think i like him!! is that a bad thing? and what should i do if he askes me out?

If your best friend truly is your best friend, tell her. It's OK to like the same person as your best friend. If she gets mad at you for going out with him or liking him, she's not worth keeping cuz you're gonna like someone and sjhe's gonna go out with them at some point in time. Just talk to her. Hope I helped! ~Kylie~

Q: okay so there is this guy and ive always had a thing for him and like ... idk it seems like he flirts with me alot and like i flirt back being a gurl its natural but also being a gurl i become attached and one i do he always brings up another gurl or sumthin! so tell me how i can just ignor him soi dont get hurt again again and again

If you feel you just want to admire a guy, then find another guy! It might sound simple, it might BE simple, but then again it might be hard. At least it'll take your mind off of that loser. Hope I helped! ~Kylie~

Q: I really really like this guy, adn he says he likes me too. Every night he says he loves me, but I know he likes this other girl a little bit too. Why isn't he asking me out? He knows How much I like him and he likes me too so he says. Whats the deal?

-signals are confusing me-

I think that this guy is nervous that you won't say yes. Do you have his email? You can ask your best friend to email him and ask him if he would ever go out with you.. or maybe you could ask him out. Just try it! The worst that can happen is that he'll say no. I've gotten that so many times and I'm only in the 7th grade.

Q: Im a gurl n im 14 n like this boy but he is a yr older then me n i dotn kno how to get to kno him..i mean we talk..n i am friends with his friends but we just started talking not too long ago n i told him that i wanted to get to kno him n i askd him wat he thought n he told me "i think we should b friends for rite now n who knows wat then"..n he askd me b4 y i dont talk to him in person rilly n i dont wanna tell him that im shy bc then he will prolly jus think im a waste of time..but all my friends tell me that he stares at me..but i am shy to talk to him..how can i handle this even tho im shy??

List 10 reasons why he would like you. It'll help gain you self confidence. If you still don't have enough courage to talk to him in person, write down your feelings in a note and pass it to him, or get your very best friend in the whole wide world that you trust so much to talk to them for you. It worked for a kid a year older for me and now we're almoost bf/gf! Hope I helped!! Good luck! ~Kylie~

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My school is starting soon and I want to tell my crush that I like him. The only problem is that I have a boyfriend which I dont like anymore. And I want to break up with him its just that i havnt talk to him in like a month and I dont want to hurt him. If i do break up with my boyfriend should i tell my crush? Ive know him since i was 2 and a half and i dont know what to do its been 10 years since ive know him and well i dont know last time i liked him he found out and it was on my birthday when he found out and well he didnt talk to me for the rest of the year and it hurt because he is my best friend and i dont want that to happen again my birthday is coming up. Im worried im going to his house tomorrow with my twin brother and we are like the three amegos. What should I do i need an answer quick! Thanks i rate

You should tell your bf that you guys don't really get to communicate a lot, and when you can communicate better and see each other more in the future, you can truy it again. Tell him it's not working out because of the distance and not enough power to take control and use it to your advantage.
About your crush: There's ALWAYS your best friend's friend that can hook people up. Talk to her and tell about your crush. Tell her you want him to know, and where you want her to do it, or how. Details are important because the same thing is happening to me today and if there's no details then there's a sure fire bet that people are going to spread the wrong gossip. Hope I helped!

Q: hay i am a female who is 14 and single. i know this guy who is in my last period class but i always see him in the hallways. i never really say hi to him but if he sees me he will say hi and if too much people are not around he will ask for a hug and i will say yes. people says he has a girlfriend but i think he is playing her because he is always up on different girls. he is a really sweey guy. he is a guy that is a little "pimp". he loves to touch girls booty. oneday i was sitting by myself and he came and sat beside me and hug me and started rubbig my back and we were talking. and he was like i have a secret to tell you and i was like ok and he kissed me. i was shocked. but i didn't do anything. after he did that i had to leave because my teacher called me. but he told me to come but. 20 minutes later i was sitting by myself and he joined me and his friends did too. i was the only girl on the bench. he was hugging me and rubbing my belly and legs. he said to me i love you.... like 20 times to me but i didnt answer his question because i did not know what to say and i finally was like i love you as a friend. he told me i am pretty and thinks i have big boobs for my size and he will always say sweet things to me. sometimes he will feel me up(boobs,tits) also he will ask for a hug and he will start rubbing my back and booty. and everytime he sees me he wil grab me and one day we were walking to class and he began rubbing me up. we would always hug each other everyday sometimes once or twice. but i am not the only girl he hugs he hus other girls but when he hugs them he will just give them a decent hug but when he hugs me he would start feeling me up. i like it . i love him but i want to know if he likes me or is he just being a friend?

It depends. How does he treat his girlfriend? Does he treat all of his "friends" like that? If he doesn't treat his girlfriend like that, it's almost a sure bet he likes you. Make sure you're making the right choice before you engage in anything because sometimes boys "like that" (not trying to be a stereotype) or that do that can lead to trouble. But you should be able to trust him if he's really a good friend/bf. Good luck! ~Kyli~

Q: hay i am 14 and single and i am a female. oneday i was walking in the hallways and this guy tapped by shoulders and was just like "hi" and i said hi and i just went along with my business. a few days later i was walking in the hallways and he said hi to me but i never replied because i never knew who he was talkin to. 2 mins later i passed back that same way with my friend and he was there with this guy i knew. and the guy who was he was with knows me and he was like hi sarah and i was like hi and then the guy was like "now i know your namme" and i smiled and walked to my business. the same day at my lunch the guy was behind me and he was like hi naiome and i said hi and dat was that. the next day i was going to my locker and he was going somewhere and he was like hi sarah and i said hi and i asked him why do u always say hi to me and he was like i think you are pretty and i smiled and then he said you are too young for me the sanme time his friend came along and asked who i was? and i didnt hear what the guy told him.and then i was like ok bye i got to go. then after i left he was still talkin with his frend and i heard them talkin and i think his friend was asking about me ... i didnt hear and his friend watched back and began smiling with me and i smiled back and then i went away to by business.does he like me ? does he want to go out with me?

I had this problem in 6th grade. Sept it was in form of a stalker who sent me love notes.
He likes you, he might want to go out with you (some people just don't wanna go out this early), and you should consider him as AT LEAST a good classmate that you can talk to when you have nobody else to. AT THE LEAST!! You should try getting to know him better before starting any relationship.

Q: some guy told me i turned him on :-P wut does that mean?

It basically means he likes you and wants to have sex.

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I'm Kylie and I'm here to help. My dream is to go to the Naval Academy and be a Navy Shrink. Please ask me whatever you want, because I will try my best to help you to solve your problem.
Kylie:)