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hi,i really like this guy but i no he knows that i like him cause i told him but i want himto go out with me .But im afraind he'll say no then ill stop likein him.......wat should i do (link)
You should never be afraid to ask someone out. What's the worst that will happen? He'll say no. It's not the end of the world. If he says no, that's not really a reason to stop liking him. Try giving it time. Hope he says yes!


i really like this boy and he knows i like him,cause i told him,but i'm afraid to ask him wat he thiks of me wat should i do.and if he doesnt like me ill stop likeing him (link)
You have to have confidence in yourself. Build up enough courage if you can and ask the. boy. If you can't do that, you can always have a friend ask him. Just because he might not like you doesn't mean you should stop liking him. Hope he likes you back!


im scared i was having sex with this girl and i took a poop in her mouth and she died and now the police are after me wat shud i do? (link)
I think you should probably confess. The longer you run, the more you will be hunted. Also, if you confess, they might give you a not as hard punishment.


i was wondering if i should go out wit this kid tht i like alot ...but it might not feel rite because my bother is gonning out with his cousin but there only related by marrage..but im un but im not gonna be related 2 him just my bothers gf. and my friends might think that is kinda wierd...
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Well, why should you care about what other people think? As long as you think that you are good, then it doesn't matter what other people think. If you really like him, then just ask him out and go out with him. You shouldn't care so much about what other people think of you. Good luck making a decision!


well i like these 2 girls at my camp and i think r both kool and nice and hot but i dont know which one i should choose to like

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Well, if you like both of them the same, then how about thinking about this. Who do you have more fun with? Who do you enjoy being around more? I hope you pick the right person to like. Good luck!


i like sex and its so fun i have it atleast once a day but i have got a lot of women pregnant now and im trying to stop but its addicting wat do i do?
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Well, there are a few things you can do to at least give a beter chance of preventing it. Have you tried using a condom? Also try having the women your having it with use a birth control pill. I hope you can stop. Good luck!


EVERYONE tells me that my bf is cheeting on me with his ex. What do you think i shud do... break up or trust him? (link)
I think you just need to sit down and talk to him to straighten things out. Are the people that tell you that he cheats on you friends or people you can't really trust? You really have to straighten things out with your boyfriend. Good luck!


My friend thinks she likes sum1, but she's not sure. She tells me to tell him, but then she gets mad at me for doing it. What shud i do?? (link)
Well, next time your friend tells you that, record her saying it or if it's on AIM, copy and save it. Then, if you tell the boy, and she gets mad, play the recording and or show her the conversation and just tell her that she told you and that she has no reason to be mad at you. Good luck with that!


How do i make the move on my gf? (link)
Well you don't want to make a move on your girlfriend when she doesn't want to. You want to make sure she won't mind. You should probably start with hugs, then try and work up to kissing. Movies are a good place you can have a first kiss. One way that you can almost be positive she will let you if you do these few things: Whisper things into her ear. Cuddle with her. Compliment her. Make her feel good. Well, I hope you choose the right time!


I met this awsome boy on AIM and i know him alot...he still considers me his girlfriend. He's actually friends with one of my best friends, and they go to the same school. I don't know if I should trust him, but my best friend said he's fine. I've seen pictures of him and he's seen pictures of me. But i dont know if he's really that cool...Should I go out with him? (link)
Well first of all, do you like him? Next, maybe you should go on just one date with him and see how you like it. If you enjoyed yourself, then you should keep going out with him. Also, do you know anyone else that knows him? If you do, then talk to them about him. See what they think about him. I hope you make the right choice!


Ok well some girl(kathrine)told me that my bf(tim g) was cheating on me.And i asked Tim about it and he said he didnt kno Kathrine.wat should i do brake up wit him or not (link)
Well, in a situation like this, I would think about this. What kind of reputation does Katherine have? Does she lie a lot? Is she a straight-A student that never lies? This also tests how much you trust your boyfriend. I think you should really just sit down and talk to your boyfriend to straighten things out. I hope things work out, I really do. Good luck!


i have a friend...well actually she's my godsister.she's known me since i was 7 years old,so we are really close.she's 13 years old,she just recently turned 13 years old.she's real cool to hang with.she spends the night a lot,and she knows my family real well.i also know her aunts,uncles,grandma,etc.she's soo nice to me when we are alone.but when she hangs with her older friends who are my friends to,she tells me off.when i'm with my friends she like to show off an be rude to me.i'm really sensitive,and she hurts my feelings.i'm starting to hate her.i'm having a sleepover and my mom and her mom are best friends,so i have to invite her.and all my friends will be there,so she will try to ruin my sleepover for me by showing off and talking smack!!! what should i do? i'll rate high!!! please help!!! (link)
Well, a lot of the time when people show off, it's because they have a low self esteem and want other people to compliment them when they show off. Have you ever just asked her to stop? That might help. Also, if she does some of that stuff, either ask to speak to her alone or if your sensitive and don't want your friends to see that, just take a quick walk or say your going to the bathroom and cool off. If all of that doesn't work, just tell her how you feel. Also warn your friends when they get there that you stepsister will probably be talking about you and not to laugh. If they don't laugh, she won't be encouraged to do more of it. Then she'll stop. I hope this works out for you, I really do. Good luck!


would you go out wit a girl that has braces but you dont like her because of her braces but she is getting them off in 2 months and u think she will look hot with them off or go out wit the one that is already hot?
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Well, first of all let me just say that being hot shouldn't be the only reason you like someone. Don't forget about making sure they have a good personality. Do you like the girl with braces or not? And what about the girl you already think is hot? Do you like her? If you think they will both be hot, then those two qualities just cancel each other out. So, compare other things. Are they nice? Smart? Funny? Fun to be around? Forgiving? Think about those qualities too. Like the old saying goes, don't judge a book by it's cover.


if you got red carded in a soccer game would you get in the ref's face or would u just be kool and walk off the field? (link)
It depends if you think the call was fair or not. Also, how would you look at it? Would you think of getting a red card means the end of the game for you so you don't have to worry about it and you can yell in the ref's face because you're already out? Or do you think of it as a time to cool down and think about your next game because your obviously not going back in. I probably wouldn't because the car ride home would be a long one with most likely a lecture from a parent. But it's up to you.


wut would u charge each hour if u were a baby sitter?? (link)
Well, how long will you be babysitting for? It depends. If you were to babysit for 4 hours, about 5 dollars an hour would be reasonable in my opinion. But it really all depends on how long you will be babysitting them for. Also, if the kids are bratty, add an extra dollar for all the work.


should i ask out mary
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It depends how you feel about her. Do you like her? That's the first step. You have to at least like her. If you went out with her just for popularity or to look cool, that wouldn't be right. If you really like her and think it would be right, then go for it.


should i ask this girl to dump her boyfriend to go out wit me or should i just go out wit this otha girl to make the otha gurl jealous? (link)
Well, making people jealous can sometimes make them upset. You don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Who do you like more? You don't have to go by this, but in my opinion, I wouldn't ask a girl to break up with her boyfriend. If you did, when she did acutally break up with him, she wouldn't ask you out because of what you asked her. Just think about that.




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