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This girl asked me if i wanted to hook up wit her( u kno makeout and well u knoi the rest) wat do i do (link)
If you really want to hook up with her, then do it. If you don't want you or your not ready, then don't do it. You shouldn't be forced to do anything you don't want to. And if you do do it, make sure its your decision and your not forced into it.


woah ok well my friend was talkin to my bfs xgf and she sed my bf was gonna dump me ... but i really dot no what goin on because shemight of jsut sed that because she still likes him .... i love him alot and i really dont want this to happen . . .
alex please help me (link)
Well maybe you should ask your boyfriend. Ask him if he really is going to. Also, is this ex a girl you can trust? If she isn't, then maybe she is lieing. Most likely she will be. But maybe the best thing to do is to ask your boyfriend or you can ask one of his friends if he is. Good luck. I hope he doesn't.


I like this really hot girl and 2 nites ago she asked if i wanted to makeout and see her tits and all that jazz wat the hell do i do shes wickied and hertits are huge and she has sweet lips (link)
If you really want to then you can. I'm not going to say you have to or that you can't. If you think your ready and you really want to, then you can.


i really like this boy and my friends keep askin him if he likes me(he knows i like him) and he keeps sayin i dont know and i want to know y he wont answer me.So i asked him this my friend said u have to be a good boy friend say i love and meen it and stuff like that and i dident really her to want to say that but i no shes tryin to help but then i asked him if my friend dident say all that stuff to you would you of asked me out and he said idk maybe not sure .My problemis he wont anwer if he likes me .how should i get it out of him. (link)
Well, this happened to me with a girl. She wanted to no so she did this. Ask the boy if he likes you and say that you have an important reason for asking. He'll ask what it is and say I'm not going to tell you until you tell me if you like me or not. He will tell you yes or no and then when he asks for the reason, say you were just wondering. You don't have to do that, but it should work. Good luck.


i hate it alex your a boy you might know y do mostg boys follow on what there friends tell them to do? y cant boys just be there own person! you dont know how hard it is when boys do stuff just because their friends tell them 2!!! i hate y do they do that!!!!! (link)
I'm not like that. Even if my friends tell me to do something, I don't do it if I don't want to. But most boys do it because they want to look cool in front of their friends. It's pretty much peer pressure. But don't worry, not all boys are like that. Good luck finding a good boy.


my gf likes a boy and doesnt know who she should go out wit, can u give me some suggestions to help her decide.thx (link)
Well, you can tell you girlfriend to make a pro's and con's list for both boys. Whoever ends up with more pro's and less con's is the person she should go out with. But you don't have to do that. If you do, good luck.


my gf likes a boy and doesnt know who she should go out wit, can u give me some suggestions to help her decide.thx (link)
Well, tell your girlfriend to make a pro's and con's list about both boys. Whoever out of the two boys has more pro's and less con's should be the boy she goes out with. I hope she stays with you. Good luck.


My name is Kaitlyn and no one seems to like me, im stupid and wierd wat should i do, i have a crush on a popular cute boy but he said im a beast wat should i do?????? (link)
Well first of all, you shouldn't think that of yourself. Also, you never know about the whole crush thing. Someday he could like you. Good luck.


ook i have this friend and we used to be really colse . . . but not any more ... we like neva talk anymore ...i mean the otha day we were talkin and i like realized things r soo not what they used to be and i was basicly cryin... no matter what i do thigs like dont change and i really hate it
plz help (link)
That's acutally happening with me right now too. Ask them why you aren't as close anymore. With my situation, it was that I never tell her anything like I used to. But I'm going to start telling her things again. I think it will work. Well, I hope. Good luck and I hope things work out with you and your friend.


i have been with my boyfriend for 20 yrs and im 30 yrs old, and he hasnt asked me to marry him yet should i move on or keep on waiting? (link)
You definitely should not move on. If you have been going out with him for 20 years, then you should keep waiting. It should happen pretty soon. Just keep waiting. It will happen. Good luck.


my frriend really likes this boy but he hates her and i always have to stand up for he but i dont really care cause shes my bffl so i just do it but the people that make fun of her think im a bitch cause i stand up for her and be so mean and i tell her to just walk away when they make fun of her but she does it anyways and i m sick and tired of standin up for her.WHAT SHOULD I DO .....................HELP ALEX!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Well, you can try telling your friend to stand up for herself. Or you can acutally drag her away to make her walk away. At a last resort, you can tell your friend to try and stop liking that boy. Good luck.


I am a lesibian and my boyfriend is gay and we love each other though should we keep it up or break apart? (link)
I have a question first before I answer that. If your a lezbian and your boyfriend is gay, why are you guys going out? But anyways, if you guys really love each other, stay with it.


dude i really like dis girl and all i can think bout is her. But shes goin out wit this kid i hate and i think she really likes me but shes afraid to hurt this kids fellings and if she dont break up wit him soon im goin to stop likin her ps. She is really hot (link)
Tell the girl you like her. Then maybe if she finds out someone she really likes likes her back she will break up with that other boy. Good luck.


My gf likes another boy and me and doesnt know who to choose and needs help, can u give her some advice (link)
Tell your girlfriend to make a pro's and con's list for both boys. Whoever has more pro's and less con's should be the boy she goes out with. Good luck.


Dude help i wana hook up wit this really hot girl wat the hell do i do (link)
Let me think about this. There are a few things you can do. Be nice to her. Be a gentleman. Also, get in good with her friends. You can even try being romantic. Go on a date with her and give her a rose. Good luck.


Dude help i wana hook up wit this really hot girl wat the hell do i do (link)
Alright, let me think about this. There are a few things you can do that might help your chances. You have to be nice to her. Be a gentleman. Also, get in good with her friends. You can also try being romantic. Go on a date with her and give her a rose. Good luck with her.


i like this boy and he knows i like him but every tim e i ask him or one of my friends he like i dont i dont no y wont he answer me and i told him i wont care if he doesnt like me cause he doesnt have to like me to like him .My problem is y wnt he answer me???????????????????????? (link)
Well, I think I understand what this boy's problem is. I'm a boy, so I understand what's going on. Boys don't like to reveal who they like. Girls might, but boys don't. Eventually, he probably will tell you or one of your friends. Just keep asking him. Good luck finding out.


hi im 12 years ols and i basicly love this boy but the only thing is he hates me!!! he hates me so much he just wishes i would die!him and all of his friends always make fun of me and him and all of his friends say i stalk him but i dont i love him so much people tell me stuff about him and its just hard to forget it! I cant take it ive asked him like 50 times why he hates me and his answer is always i dont know! Its bugs me so much!!! I dont know what to do to make him not hate me anymore!! I have done everything and it doesnt work i cant get ova him i dont know y but i cant!! what can i do to get ova him or how can i get him to not hate me anymore!!! please help!!! (link)
This is a hard question. Maybe you should try liking a new person. Or try asking one of his friends why he hates you. It could work, you never know. Also, sometimes when people are mean to you it means they like you. Good luck!


I was wondering if i should get a new style for my new skool year. So i decided that i should dye my hair pink or red so i am asking you.I am going gothic i am only doing it because my bf is so i want too die my hair a gothic color and i can't decide. My bf and i makeout everyday and i can't compare my hair with his becasue they are different colors so please help me ALEX (link)
Well, personally, I would choose pink over red. I don't know why, I just would. But you can choose whatever you want. The pink was just my opinion.


I'm going out with a relle cute boy, do they care how u dress on a first dATE? (link)
Well, since I'm a boy and can say from experience, they do care a little. They don't want to go on a date with a girl that dresses like she just got picked up from the streets. You also don't really want to overdress and make it seem like its a prom your going to. Keep it casual. Wear something you would normally wear. Good luck!




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