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hey ok well people say i give good advice i am 13 years old so thnx for rating me

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month tomorrow. and i dont think that our relationship is working out. He tells me he loves me all the time but I dont think that he really does. I have been having a feeling that hes dating another girl but I'm not really sure. For about 2 weeks, its been really hard for me to even talk to him about anything because im scared if I say something wrong he will break up with me! A while back I told him how i felt and then he did break up with me! How should I tell him this time without him doing that all over again?

signed,
confused

ok just talk to him what ever you say to him just go along with the conversation and if he breaks up with you you said that your relationship isnt working to good why waste your time in a relationship thats not going good.
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I'm going to buy the Nitendo (sp?) DS and I'm not sure which game to get, Zoo tycoon or Super Mairo. I'm 14/f and I hate the games that are like really hard to beat but with some chanlege and I've played both games befor. Which one do you reccomend?
Will, rate too!!!!!
Thanks!

ok i have the zoo tycoon for ds and i have the mario racing game for ds also i like the racing better but i dont know which mario game your going to get cause theres some other mario games thats really bording and its really hard to understand what to do so if you get mario i would get the go kart racing game if your a fast pase person than the racing if you like going slow than zoo tycoon.
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i feel really bad, i "pleasure myself" and i dont know how to stop i want to but then again i dont what do i do?

-signed *clueless*

ok try not to do it so much it sorta is in the middle where you want to do it you still are and where you dont want to do it your not doing it as much.
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OK.. just to warn you my story is very long, confusing, and tiring.. so idc if it takes you a while to respond.

alright.. since this is a long complicated story m gonna tell you who everyone is first-
dylan- a guy in my grade who i really like alot
josh- a hott older guy who i really like alot too
ethan- my boyfriend who i only like a little
erika- my best friend
sam- erika's boyfriend

let me start from the beginning. mkay like 2 weeks ago i started going out with ethan. then i started liking josh and not ethan as much so i broke up with him so i could flirt with josh w.o. ethan getting upset. then a week later ethan asked me out agian. i said yes. now like a couple days ago i started liking dylan. dylans cuter than ethan and wayy funnier. so at this point i really like ethan and josh alott. and then christmas comes and ethan doesn't get me a gift so i get reallyy pissed.
2 days before christmas my best friend erika starts going out with a cute guy named sam. they like each other alot and have the cutest conversations. sam always tells her how pretty she is and how much he loves her. my other two best friends have boyfriends two and they have cute conversations on the computer too. they're always like i love you.. i love you more.. but me && ethan only say i love you when we have to go and its only like- i love you.. i love you too..
now i don't know if i should break up w. ethan and go out with josh? break up w. ethan.. flirt with josh.. and tell dylan how i feel about him? or keep leading ethan on while behind his back talking with josh && telling both of them how much i like him and only flirting with dylan? but then i feel like a whore. its like ethan i love you.. josh i love you more than ethan.. (and josh absolutely hates ethan so...) and then dylans like absolutely clueless about the whole thing. i just dont know what to do.. be a whore.. give my

ok well i would break up with ethan cause thats mean to just lead people on let him find someone more like him and if he asks you to go back together than say no he probaly wont if you and josh are going out but yea break up with ethan and see who you like more either josh or dylan and when you pick and pick only one start tgose cute conversations with them that you like.
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for christmas i got an ipod nano & i wanted to add more songs to it. anyone have any good song ideas?? i like hip/hop, rap, etc.

thanks!!

juelz santana-there it go
kanye west-most songs are good
r kelly-trapped in the closet
pussy cat dolls-stickwityou and dont cha
lil bow wow-most of the songs are good
mariah carey-most songs of hers are good
ludacris-most songs are good
chris brown-run it
black eyed peas-my humps
d4l-laffy taffy
teairra mari-make her feel good and no daddy
ricky martin-i dont care
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hi, I'm thirteen..
well, I've been starving/cutting myself
for about three months.
I've tried to stop cutting but I know I won't.
I don't think I'm fat, but I think
I need to lose weight - really badly.
do you know what I should do about this?

tell your parent about what your doing try and stop hopefully your parents well get you some help.
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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3

dont break up with him you love him the pimples will probaly go away soon and thats wrong to break up with someone that has pimples.
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okay..I was at my friend Ricky's house and he waslike all over me but I didn't like him at the time and then he started to give me hickys everywhere!...and I started o like it so I went along with it and then he got me into bed and then about 2 months later I couldn't stop puking.
I don't know what to do, should I tell my mom I think I'm pregnant?...

ps. I really really need some advice

-Sincerely Jen

yes you should because soon or later she might find out and be sure you are but before your sure tell her anyways. when your sure tell your friend ricky. your age would help a lot but for now tell your mom.
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At school in the boy's locker room, I tend to look around at other guy's anacondas.. I talk to my dad about this. He usually tells me that it's just because I'm kind of (what he claims) curious.I always tell him that I'm not curious. I always tell him that I kind of like seeing other guy's naked. Ugh. This sounds really bad, but I even told my cousin that once, when he was in his room naked, getting dressed, I saw him through window.. I LIKED IT! AND HE'S MY COUSIN! Now since I told him that, he's been acting -sexually- towards me! I LIKE IT TOO AND HE'S MY COUSIN! ughh. If it weren't for that stupid locker room, then I wouldn't be giving blow jobs to my own cousin! Ugh. WHAT DO I DO?!

Very Confused about my sexuality--
Beorn

tell your cousin you dont want to do this no more i wouldnt get to close to him anymore. I cant help you on your gay sexuality cause you probaly always will be but just hopefully not with your cousin.
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i was at my girl friends, mel's house, and we were watching a movie and she was sitting on my lap and i got an erection. omg! it made her jump. since then, she doesn't get close to me anymore. im scared for our relationship. i mean its just one little boner! WHAT SHOULD I DO??!

sincerely: Vezzy

tell her either the truth or you can get close to her with her just not sitting on your lap. Hopefully she wont move away.
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hey ya'll so any ways i was at my friends leslies house [ we normally have a big christmas party at her house every year] so any ways me and her were standing underneath the misltetoe and she kept like hinting twoard it and i didnt know what to do. so guys im sorry to say... I DID IT I KISSED HER AND IT FELT SO GOOD!!! It was awsome and the only other sensationsal feeling ive had before was well...i like to "pleasure" my self at night and i feel really bad doing it because one- im not that pretty and im really curious to well "know" what it feeels likes and two- i go to a catholic school and im VERY religous [ well every one thinks i am] and i have this totally opposite side of me and well being gay in my church is considered a sin! and i pray every night that god will forgive me but then again it feels so good! ugh im sorry, i need help and ur the only other person i know who could realte. so what should i do..go with my instinct and stay with my pealseureable side and continue my sins or stay the fake, perfect girl i am. wow am i consided or what!? any ways help me!!!

Love Always- [Sincerly]
A Fellow Lesbonic Sister

try kissing a guy and see how that feels or if you ever liked a guy before maybe your not fully lesbian you could be bi-sexual but first i would tell your parents see what they want you to do. you can tell the girl you kissed that was a sin kissing you you could probaly go to a different school like public if your parents let you.
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me and my friends are all bi-sexual. we all like eachother alot. we never really all had an "experience".. so all 6 of us.. well.... you could say were "fooling around".. after about a half hour of "fun", my brother paul, and his 3 wicked hot friends devin, niko, and jimy walked in and i had something going with niko before this "incident". What should i tell my friends and family? how should i explain to them my feelings for other females?

PS ugh. sooo confused, please helppp!

you can tell them that you think you are bi-sexual and your friends already know right and if your scared to tell your family than when ever you have a girl over that you like tell them shes your friend.
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ok i want to redo my room a little so i want like 2 chairs one thats like a bean bag and another like those chair that the bars hold it up its a very low chair. i also want new sheets with a new blanket to go with it maybe those paper lamps that hang on your ceiling and curtains i have two windows if you can think of anything else please tell me about how much is all this going to cost about if you have the time can you send me links to what i might get in the price range you choose thanks i rate 5s..

that will probaly all come to maybe about 120$
bean bag chair-20$
chair with bars-15$
new sheet&blanket-45$
paper lamp-10$
curtains-30$
it comes to 120$ but the stuff where you live might be more money.
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okay well theres this girl and shes my best friend and she cuts herself and i dont know what to do to stop her or help her please HELP!!! i rate high VERY HIGH!i am in 7th grade

tell her parents or tell your guidance counselor to talk to her or something she must be cutting herself for some reason find out what that reason is and than try to fix it like sleep over her house and see what she gets mad at she might not cut herself in front of you but what ever she gets mad about.
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ok well there are like 5 guys that want to go out w. me - and i have a boyfriend but i don't kno what to do - because i really like 2 of them - and they are wicked sweet and all but i don't know what i should do - because i don't wanna break up w. my boyfriend cuz i just got a christmas present from him - and his dad just passed away but i don't want to feel like a whore!! - what should i do?

wait a while but if you are not interested in the boyfriend you got now i wont go out with him just wait about 2 weeks or so that should give you time to find the guy you like more.
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Kay..theres dis guy dat i like and we talk a lot and he flirts wit me sometimes..sometimes i catch him staring at me in class but den he turns away and sometimes when i walk by, look at him, or talk to him they start saying something to him and he gets mad and either ignores dem or tells dem to shut up. Donno if he likes me but do you think he does?
-Steph-

ask him or tell him you like him and talk to him more and when you are make it sorta funny but not over doing it.
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okay so my boyfriend kissed a girl on the check in truth or dare when i wasnt there and at a party he didnt talk to me. what should i do i really like him but i just dont know if he likes me the same way but we're hanging out tonight but idk if its right... help me pleease! i am in 7th grade

ok so this might be a little late to anwser sorry well you can ask him why he wasnt talking to you at the one party and ask if he liked kissing that other girl just keep asking different questions.
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im trying to find a music video of the song kansas city 90210 by from autumn to ashes but ive tried singingfish, and google, and i still couldnt find it. Does anyone know any websites that has this music video? Oh, and a code to past in blogs

www.musicvideocodes.com
www.hotcodez.com
www.limewire.com
www.musicvideocodes.com
www.bearshare.com

hope i helped!! if you need more ask me

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Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing.

yea you dont even like him that much and he is so far away.
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ok well at school theres a boy that likes me and im not sure if i lik him. i think i like him but im not sure if i like him or like him becuase he likes me.... then people at school are talking about us and lik some of my friends want us to go out and others say i shouldn't. he almost got into a fight because of people saying that i wouldnt go ou wih him.... what should i do?????

if you think you like him i would go out with him try it out and if it doesnt work out you can just say its not working out.
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