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I am an inspired 16 year old who is looking for a career in giving advice. I have been around the block a few times and I am an expert on a wide variety of personal topics. I'm unique, outgoing and I love art and music. I also enjoy playing my guitar.
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im asking this question for my friend ... a few months ago she wanted to be homeschooled ... then she found this really nice boarding school that she liked A LOT! so she requested information and things of that sort on teh internet and things like that...well she was sure her mom was going 2 say yes...well her mom said that it was A LOT of money 2 pay especially shes one of four kids...four girls...so it kinda sux for her! i feel really badly for her and she asked me 2 write this...she cant go to the boarding school or homeschooled and she doesn't want to go 2 public/private school because in her area...they judge you at pub. and private school...
PLEASE HELP THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HER AND ME!!
AND AGAIN PLEASE HELP!!
I'm really sorry that your friend cannot afford the education she wants, but I think going to a regular school would help build what kind of person she truly is. No matter where you go, your going to be judged, but as you get older you learn who you are and to accept that person. It's a hard concept, but you have to face the person you are, and take yourself with a smile. You may find people that you don't care for, that laugh at what you wear or what color your hair is or "ew look at her shoes", but you need to overcome those standards and realize that you ARE a great person, no matter what other people say. If you are happy with yourself, that's all that really matters after all.
Hope I helped babe, and good luck with whatever you guys decide
ok, i liked this guy from school a little, and we really hit it off. We started talking over the internet, and since the hurrican ive been talking to him for a week. Its kinda hard talking to him, but today he told me he loved me. it totally freaked me out!then he said he was just kidding and that he was srry. Of course i told him he needed a life and a girlfriend. But he stared telling me that he was really sorry and sending me these internet flowers. They were soooo beutifull! But, i really cant give my heart to him, how can i tell him that we should be friends and that he should stop being so really sweet to me, even though i like it? And how do i tell my friend about thid last conversation? I think she might like him...I see big problems in the future!
from distraught and in need of answer!
It's obvious that dispite what he says, he does have feelings for you, and though your mind might not want you to have the same feelings, your heart is telling you differently. Maybe you should take your relationship further then just the internet, have him over and watch a movie, no hanky panky, and just see what happens. If you end up feeling differently after spending some quality time, go from there. As for your friend, there's really no need to tell her unless things get serious. =)
Okay well Im 16 years old and I dont know who my real father is. I know his name is Jim and he lives in west virginia. I dont like asking my mom because everytime I ask she gets this look on her face and trys to change the subject as if she were mad or something. I dont want to make her upset or mad but it feels like theres a wholllle other life that i dont know of! I mean its not one of those things where "she doesnt know who my dad is" she knows but wont talk about him. But there are days where I am completey upset cuz I just start thinking of him even though I dont know who he is."does he even know about me? does he not love me? was i not what he planned on having?" so many questions! Now the TRUE question is when im 18 should I ask my mom then go and try to find him or do you think it happend for a reason?!?! should I just let it go and live with all the pain? im so lost and heart broken. i mean i survived 16 years without a true dad but it hurt so bad excpecially because i never talked about him. What do you think I should do?
I can imagine how hard it must be for you to deal with this constant mystery. I was thankful to have both my parents growing up, though now I often take having my father around for granite. I think you should, depending on the situation and relationship you have with your mom, sit down and pick a right moment to talk to her about your dad, no secrets. Tell her that your old enough to handle the truth, no matter how hard it may be. Maybe you could write him a letter and send him a picture of you, and if he doesn't respond, he's not worth your time. If your family is happy now, maybe your mom doesn't want to bring an old memory back in to the picture. Let me know how it goes. Good luck
i went to am-i-fat.com just to see what it would say and it said that im emaciated, but i want to lose weight. do u think im anerexic? what should i do? thnx
You shouldn't allow a website to tell you what kind of eating disorder you have. If you feel like you are having a problem, you should consult your parents and if needed a doctor. I'm sure your gorgous and you don't need to lose any weight anyways:)