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i had sex with this girl and now she thinks she might be pregnen. i have no time to take care of a kid i'm only 14. i might just run away, im scared. if she is pregnant what should i do?

PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
ummm .. you should probably get this girl a pregnancy test - if shes pregnant, you & her should tell her parents. i dont think its safe for you guys to take this in your own hands .. then you should seek help so you and her dont have to be parents at such a young age =\ good luck


ok i really like this kid and were going out. but hes soooo jealous of when i hang out with this one kid. he knows me and this other kid used to really like each other but things changed and i pretty much got over him. we hang out all the time and i love to be around him. but my b/f doesnt belive me no matter what and the kid i used to like isnt helping me at all. my b/f has all his friends watching me with everything i do and questioning me and its getting uncomfertable cause they never believe the truth. i dont wanna loose my b/f cause ik he really cares ive asked him to back off a little and ive broken up wiht him but everytime i do he just asks me out again. and now the kid i used to like is sending me signals and telling me he loves me and stuff . id really like to get back wiht him but i dont wanna get hurt like last time. is there anyway to give them both another chance without hurting them?!?!? (link)
ok thats hard because you like both of them, but don`t want to hurt any of their feelings nor get yours hurt.. what you have to do is decide who you really care about and know you want to be with [if you don`t decide you`re going to be caught in a whole love triangle and YOU are going to end up getting hurt] .. if you really think you want to be with your current bf, then maybe hang out less with the other kid for a little; but if you decide you`ve had enough of your bf now and want you "old love" back, then tell your bf maybe you should take or break, or let him off easy - dont hurt his feelings. good luck!


ok i am absoloutly in love wiht this boy and everyone knows it even him. we've liked eachother for the longest time and were pretty much from what everyones knows "going out" he likes my best friend and im ok cause im into other guys but he gets mad at that. he likes so many girls but im not allowed to like this one guy. ive tried explaning to him that i can like other guys but he doesnt seem to get it. he gets mad at me and we always fight but no matter what i cant just get enough of him. i know i need to get over him so i can start new relationships but how can i do it without him bugging me? (link)
first, you should tell him that its not fair that he can like other people but you can`t. then the best solution is probably to tell him you guys should just be friends .. that way you can keep a relationship - without being TOO close - and you can both like other people. you should keep hanging out with him, but keep your relationship to "friends". good luck =]


hi ... i feel like i am losing one of my best friends ... this person doesnt seem the same to me. She is friends with a lot of other people i am not ... but i still really want to be her friend ... we have been friends for so long but i feel as if i wouldnt be comfortable talking to her about this ... what do u think that i should do? (link)
well .. first off, you shouldn`t make it seem like the fact that she has "new friends" make you angry. maybe you can ask her to hang out one time just you and her & do things that you both enjoy to show that you guys have fun together. if she declines to hang out with you, maybe you should really try talking to her about it .. maybe you can say something like - i feel like were growing apart. good luck =]


i rele have a problem .. i like this boy but i have a feeling he will NEVER EVER like me back .. i try to talk to him and we flirt and stuff , but he likes someone better than me. My friend tried asking him, who he liked and if he liked the person that i kno he definitly likes he responded idk .. i guess i do. When he told me wat he said i was really upset . I have no clue how to not like him anymore because in my heart i kno i do ... please help me! (link)
i think that the best solution is to get over this boy .. and yes that may sound bad now, and seem hard but it`s best for you.. the worst thing that happens, is you get too caught up in liking him and then when he finds another girl you end up getting crushed. although it may take a while to get over him, you shouldnt act upset all the time - do fun things to get your mind off him like hanging out with friends! if you REALLY cant let go, maybe you should tell him you like him, but if he doesnt like you back that may make you even more upset. good luckk!


Ok, well im going out with this guy, hes older than me, and he tells me that he reli loves me and he wants to h.u. with me. But i dont reli have the feelings that i use to have about him, i dont like him anymore. I like this other boy and he likes me. But i dont no how to break up with my boyfriend. Because he said that if he see's me with him he will beat the shit out him rite in front of me!!! what do i do i dont want the boy that i reli love to get hurt! (link)
first off, your bf now seems to act like a tough guy .. not good. i understand that you dont wanna hurt his feelings but its not even good for YOU. maybe you can tell him that you feel that your going too fast and hes too "experienced". if you do break up with your boyfriend now .. dont immediately go out with this new boy, because that might show you`re either desperate or hurt your [older] boyfriend`s feelings. good luck!


theres this guy that ii went out with for a while and ii ended up breaking up with him [ and ii really dk why ii did it ] ii still really like him ; ii think ii was just confused at the time .. & now ii miss him really bad =( and he goes out with one of my best friends .. well used to be .. and we still talk a lot // i just dont know what to do? (link)
i think that maybe you should continue talking to him and maybe stay friends .. if your relationship grows and you become what you think is more than friends .. then maybe you should tell him you like him [again] - see what he says and if he doesnt feel the same then maybe its time to move on and im sure you will find someone who will make you happy. if your "ex friend" likes him though, you mite not want to get too involved for your own benefit =\


okay i have this guy friend and he wants to hook up and i want to hook up with him too .. but the only problem is that he once went out with one of my friends when they were younger. i mean i dont kno if she would even care but i dont kno if i should or not just in case -- and even if i did ask her if its okay she would say yes even if its not okay -- what do u think i should do?? (link)
i think that you should first talk to your friend about it .. maybe say - hey i rele like so and so, but dont say he wants to hook up with you because that might make your friend feel bad. if she says its ok .. then go for it - only if YOU feel comfortable and he does too. also .. the worst thing to do is keep it a secret from your friend .. so your best off confronting her =]


i love this guy at camp and i think he likes me too but his friend works there also and im scared if he says sumthing bad about me to him he wont consider liking me wat should i do? (link)
well i think if he really likes you, what your friend says wont matter .. if your friend says something bad and the boy you like believes him hes not worth it! and also if your friend is saying bad things about you theyre not that good of a friend =\


how many licks to the center of a tootsie pop? (link)
good question


Lindsay, how did you become so hott ;)
signed the next hitler (link)
idk i think i was just blessed with a beautiful face and figure ;)


well, theres this boy at camp i like. and my friend tommy, is friends with him. i really wanna talk to him but when i try to, i chicken out. I want like his sn and its easy for me to ask anyone else for thiers. idk what to do can u please help me! (link)
well i think that since your friends with tommy, when tommy and the boy you like are hanging out you should tag along .. then he`ll get to know you better and then u can ask him for his sn


i really dont want to be this persons friend and i need some sort of techniques so that i can try to avoid the person .. we have been so called "friends" for a few years but i really feel that i will do MUCH better with out this person . It is a really big annoyance to be friends with the person and i just dont kno how i shuld do it nicely and without being too mean

please tell me wat to doo .. (link)
ok well thats a tough one .. there actually is no way to NOT be friends with them w/out being mean so maybe if the person calls and tries to make plans you can say your busy or have to do something with your family .. or if they tag along one time u can say im sry i already had plans .. its very hard not to hurt the other persons feelings in this situation .. but those are probably your best solutions =]


i kno this guy hoo is totally cute nd when i howed my frined shes lyk EW hes qross .. now he thinks shes hott so she lyks him nd i feel upset cuz wen i liled him he was gross . i (link)
well maybe she doesnt feel as if boys lyk her and when finally some1 thinks shes "hott" she changed her mind about him .. but im sure she didnt mean to hurt ur feelings =]


theres this guy i like and he likes me back, he already told me (b4 i told him i like him). i want him to ask me out but he hasn't done it yet. what should i do?

-completely confused (link)
i think that you shud hang out with him more .. maybe get a little closer to - use little hints but dont act too obvious




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