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I desided to make an advice column and its workin out pretty good! dont be afraid to ask me anything ill write back as soon as i can(which is soon lol) iv been thu a lot and if heard everything so im almost certan i can help you well ask away!

I love you all
Nicole

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hey .. my [ex]boyfriend and i were dating for only a short amount of time .. but i really liked him alot. things were going great wen we first started dating .. i felt like my life was perfect. and then he stopped calling me and stopped returning my calls and he was always too busy for me. and then today i was in the shower but i had an away mssg up on aim and he IMed me saying .." well umm i dont really wanna do this this way but i dont think we should go out anymore because its kinda weird dating one of my friends little sister. But i still want to be friends and all. " ive been crying ever sence i read that .. i duno wut to do .. my life is falling apart ..

YOu know i have been in ur place exactly and i know how much it sucks just dont let him know u care make him wish he never broke up with you .I know u feel like the world is over but trust me its not dont let him get in the way of the sun. In a few weeks you will be fine..it may take a little longer but u will be fine he is an ass to break up with you like that and u deserve much better get a guy who will treat u like a princess that is what u deserve. Hunny really u will feel better i promise n remmeber chocollet is a girls best friend and so are movies (they helped me out lol) Hope i helped love Nicole

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there is a girl i really luv alot but she is gonna go back out w/ her ex bf and i have a feeling that she is gonna get hurt even worse this time. how should i tell her that her ex is an asshole and is gonna hurt her again if she goes back out w/ him?

There really isnt much you can do to change a girls mind let her make her own mistakes and just be there for her if she gets hurt(unless its physical)You can try talking to her and telling her that its not a good idea but being a girl myself it prolly wont do much. hope i helped a little Love Nicole

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my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months and we have had sex a few times. i just found out that he gave me *insert sexualy tramsmitted disease here*. im so sick now and the simtoms are getting worse. how do i tell my mom?

- the naked bandit

You are going to find that telling ur mom is the least of your proublems it really dosnt matter how u tell her but you need to tell her NOW you have no idea how much danger u are putting urself in by not telling her If u are really scared to tell her just say mom my boyfriend gave me(what ever u have) just like i said before its like saying u had sex without actualy saying it. Tell her that you are sick. and she wont be too concerned about the whole sex part but lisen ppl die from this if you dont get to a docter like today you are going to be introuble. I hope you are ok and i hope i helped Love nicole

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I kinda like a guy but my friend started liking him first. I dont want to tell her i like him caz I think she will get mad at me but i also dont want to keep it a secret.

well does he like u? maybe u should wait a while before u tell her like a week to make sure u still have feelings for him. You should tell ur freind but dont make it seem like u are gonna steal him n leave her in the dust(which im sure u wouldnt lol) just tell her that u kinda like him too. if he likes u then thats good for u but same if he lieks her dont let it ruin ur friendship guys arnt that inportant. Hope i helped Goodluck

Nicole

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do you think its possible to fall in love with some in a month or less? -hardcorelovin

people seem to think that you have to be a certain age to fall inlove or it takes a certain amount of time, but i really dont believe that. IF you love somebody then you love them no one can tell you different if you know inside your heart that you really truly Love them then it doesnt matter how long uv known them(well u know along the lines it would be hard to fall inlove in a few hours now wouldnt it lol)Its deffently possible to fall inlove in a month(or less)as long as there is that Chemistry.Hope i helped

Love
Nicole

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What if you are playing hard to get but the kid never im's you?

well then i supose you could im him just not as soon as he gets on . He might be playing hard to get too lol. Good luck Nicole

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i have trouble cumming when i masterbate i was wonder if u knew differnt styles of doing it or if i should jus get a girl to do it

Well it could me that you simply wernt ment to be with girls or you are in denile about not being a pimp you could try bending over frontwords and doing the job yourself or just cut it off all together hope i helped =D

Good luck
Nicole

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hey i have a little problem with my boyfriend. When im with him and his two other friends he's with alot .. his ex g/f's come up in the subject and he'll talk about them for a little bit. It makes me uncomfortable. I duno how to bring it up to him cuz i don't think he thinks its a big deal but it's kinda a big deal to me .. w/b please!

i already answered this question lol silly

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What would be some good ways to play hard to get without acting stupid or without losing all hope with the guy?

well if you see him in person make sure hes the one who comes to you. Give him a sly smile n see if he comes over if not then just keep doing what your doing he will come.Or online have him im you. IF he says he wants to talk to you on the phone give him your # dont take his that way he has to call YOU.Playing hard to get doesnt mean act like you arnt interested it just means show it in a more Mysterious way lol.Its kind of like giving him little mixed signals or just not really strong signals. Did you know its proven that playing hard to get really makes guys want to get to know you more(something about the brain waves) well hope all goes well Good luck

Nicole

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hey i have a problem well see...my boyfriend and i had sex a few times and now i found out that he gave me a sexually transmitted disease. how am i going to tell my mom? - the naked bandit

Well you can go to a docter and have the docter tell her or you can keep it confidental between you and your docter untill your ready to tell your mom. I think she will be more upset with your boyfriend for not warning you then she will be with you. Im not gonna lie theres no easy way to tell your mom you had sex but you have to do it or you can get very sick.When you talk to her dont start it out with "mom i had sex"lol why dont you try saying "mom i have (what ever you have)" becuz its like saying you had sex with out really saying it. It wont be as bad as you think. Good luck
Nicole

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hi. theres this girl thats my friend and wants to go out with me but i want to just be her friend. theres this other girl that i like a lot and we talk until 1:30 in the morning and she's the only person who will really understands me and her friends say that if i ask her out she would say yes. I dont want to ruin my friendship with the first girl though. thanks

Talk to your friend about it before you hook up with the girl you like.You might break her heart a little but you dont want it to be a suprise. Does she already know that you onlylike her as a friend?if not you need to tell her dont send her mix signals becuz thats the worse thing you can do.as for this other girl sounds like you've got a great thing going with her.your friend will be upset for a little while but she will be ok. Just make sure that you dont talk about the girl you like around her or ne thing like that. Good luck

Nicole

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hey i have a little problem with my boyfriend. When im with him and his two other friends he's with alot .. his ex g/f's come up in the subject and he'll talk about them for a little bit. It makes me uncomfortable. I duno how to bring it up to him cuz i don't think he thinks its a big deal but it's kinda a big deal to me .. w/b please!

I know how you feel! lol no girl wants to lisen to her boyfriend talk about his ex thats just one of the things guys dont understand try tellin him when your with him on his lap or something so its not as tense just be like "i dont want you to get upsept or ne thing but it kind of bothers me when you talk about your ex" and see what he says just try to keep the convo light so he doesnt feel like this could be a possible fight(that ryhmes lol).He will proubly just say ok or something like that Hope it goes will Good luck

Nicole

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Ok well i like a guy and he knows i like him but i don't know how to get things moving with it.

well how long have you liked him?Takie it slow get to know him so he gets interested then play a LITTLE hard to get you know dont throw urself at him lol.be a little of a tease becuz it will make him want you more.just see where it goes Good luck

Nicole

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Well I've liked this guy for a little bit. But he's really stubborn. I don't know what I can do to get him to be more talkative because we actually have a lot in common.

just take is slow at first you know talk to him online n stuff n when you see him flirt a bit. who knows maybe somethings going on with him that you dont know about. Try being a friend for a little while n see where it goes. When you talk to him talk about all the things you have in commen. hope everything works out Good luck

Nicole

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my boyfriend and i have been together for a while...it seems like the perfect relationship mostly...but every couple has their twerks. There's a lot going on in my life and its hard trying to make sence of it all. It gets so hard i want to break down and I don't even know what I'm feeling anymore. He notices my changes and takes them personally thinking he is doing something wrong, but I love him with everything I have and im just at a point where its hard to get in touch with my feelings and expressing them.
Can u help = (

Everyone goes thru that part in there lifes(normaly more then once lol)sometimes trying to make sence of everything can get you even more confused. Pay attention to the most important things and do something that will take you away from you troubles everyonce in a while(you know something you loved to do Basket ball dance you kno what i mean) Your boyfriend will understand what your going thu if you talk to him about it make sure he knows that its not him He will be there for you or give you space if that is what you need jsut tell him what you told me maybe you two should just watch a movie and lay down together so you dont have to talk about ne thing you will have him who you love with out having to explain whats wrong. This will all pass you just have to take it for a while. Be glade you have a boyfriend who loves you to help you thru it.i hope i helped a little and i hope everything works out for you

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okay i have been off and on with this guy since January 22nd and we are on rite now but he is moving in a week out of state. its only like an hour drive but we probaly will only see each other a couple times a month. do you think a realtionship like that can actually work?

IT wont be the easyest thing in the world but yea it will work.My ex boyfriend lives in VA and we only saw eachother once every 3 months but we went out for almost a year. If you both really care for eachother then it wont be a problem! just try to see eachother as much as you can.And make sure you have lots of pictures of him just incase you get a lil lonly. People might ask you about it a lot but just tell them that your relationship is strong enough to make it and an hour distance wasnt worth breaking up for. Hope i hepld Good luck
Nicole

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Hey Nicole, I have a problem with my friend she got a snake and I dont really like snakes... lol JK jk I just thought I would write somthing.

-I love you

Chels

lol Loser! you will love my snake i promise she is beautiful and graceful!YOu are just jelious chelsea becuz you wish you were green like her!

hehe
Nicole
=P

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Do u think if someone really loved you, theyd break up with u. I mean I kno it mite really be for the best, but I cant really live without it..
I dont know wat to do.. theres been a lot of times were I just want to kill myself. I dont know why we really broke up.. this might sound really stupid, but everything I do reminds me of him.Like my room... I have like a million pictures of him, it's like we had a marrige.. I mean we even had like a tv show.. a song.. it's just that he was my life and I never thought this could actually really happen to me.

Love hurts. its that simple sometimes it doesnt work out n sometimes it does. You have to relize that we are only teenagers and although we do fall inlove we have a smaller chance of being "togehter forever" Break ups hurt but life goes on and so do we i know that right now you are thinking that you will never go on and you will never stop loving him but give it time. We always remember our first love.When you love someone you devote so much to them your time your mind your heart and when you break up you dont know what to do becuz you centered your life around your relationship. Trust me everything will be ok you will learn to live with out him and even tho you dont believe that now you will i promise. It happens to everyone its a part of life..soon enough you will be fine. i hope eveything gets better for you(i know it will ; )

Love always,
Nicole

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my boyfriend never wants to hang out with me anymore.. is that a sign that he wants to break-up with me and should i be worried ?

You know guys are werid. They do werid things that confuse everyone lol. Maybe your boyfriends just needs some space give it a little while n dont make it seem like it bothers you so much in a couple days ask him if everythings alrigth between you two even if he doesnt tell you straight up you'll be able to tell (guys suck at lieing when it comes to that stuff). Hope i helped good luck

Nicole

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