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I went dancing with a couple of friends of mine the other night. Now we have to drive an hour to get there and recently we see a friend (Brent) of our that we dance with down there. well I really like him but not real sure how to let him know, or if he even likes me. On the way down My friends were teasing me how I would never have the guts to dance with him (very riska) the way my other friend does. Well that day I figured well since I am playing hooky from work why not? It wasn’t immediate though. I had to build up the courage. Brent kinda helped me though. we were all sitting and this one song came on and I was the only one that went out on the dance floor because I liked the song. It was a 2 step song and suddenly Brent comes up to me and said he was going to teach me the 2 step. I was such a dork, but eventually got it. And I felt so comfortable with him. Then a little bit later the perfect song came on later for me to make my move. My friend Sabrina had just been dancing with him and she said she had to go to the bathroom. The song “pretty Woman” came on and I just went for it. Just about all out. I had never done it before but it seemed natural. we did this mostly for the remainder of the evening. Couple times I was even toying with him. It appeared as though he was liking it but also driving him crazy. And every time a slow song would come on he would actually ask me to dance instead of assuming it. Once even, when I was sitting out because I was tired and Brent was dancing with Sabrina a slow song came on and he was dancing with her,( I had no problem with that because she is married and was just dancing) a second one came on right after that but they were coming back to the couch and I hear Sabrina say ” Well I guess you will finally be able to take that break you wanted” (she hated the country song that was playing) but instead he surprisingly offers his hand out to me very charmingly and wants to go dance again with me and I hear Sabrina say ”okay I guess not” We were eventually sitting next to each other more into the night. He even was stroking my arm very casually. Little at first then more. He even had the guts to when I would lean forward to talk with Sabrina he would have his arm up on the sill so when I leaned back he would have his arm around my shoulder. We got closer too. He would start playing with my fingers and I would respond with same and eventually we were holding hands with one and the other I was all wrapped in his arms all cuddled up. I was really relaxed and comfortable until my friends said that we had to head home since it was getting late. They thought I was falling asleep because Brent was also massaging my head and neck and it just felt so good. I was so not tired. My heart was definitely racing. Afterwards we always have this tradition of walking next door to this 24 doughnut place to get doughnut holes for the ride home. It helps me be more awake for the drive home since I am the driver. Well We start walking and I said I was cold and he wraps his arms around me to keep me warm. I thought it was cute. We get our doughnuts and eat for a minute and start to head in the car. I am not sure if this worked but he gave me an extra long hug and out of umm last second thought I kissed him on the cheek very quickly and got into the car ( It was raining.) And he watched us from under the beam until we left. So what do I do now? Do you think he like me? Do you think there is any chance between us? He also lived an hour away from the club but in the opposite direction, meaning we are 2 hours apart. With our constant flirting now what? Was I giving off the right vibe? Was I too much? Please help me!! I need LOTS of answers! Thank you very much for your time!
Some of you might be familiar with my previous questions. they were about being envious of my friend and her dancing and not sure how to tell this guy how I felt. If you want to the whole story feel free to reefer yourself to those questions.
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i think you should tell him how you feel about him//keep doing what your doing. i think he likes you because he cares. there always a chance to be with someone just has to be the "right" time. tell him how you feel maybe it will bring your relationship a step further. you werent doing to much. most girls do the same thing. hope that helps.=]
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when I first moved I wanted to get my life back together cause I had made a lot of bad decisions where i had lived before and I wanted t start out fresh new school, new environment. So i had started this new school and only about 300 hundreds kids go to it its a charter school. well I had met a lot of new people cause its not hard for me to make friends well I had only being there for about a month when I met this really great guy....named tanner an well we got know each other and of course we ended up going out....well it soon ended up that nobody wanted me to be with him cause he was apparently racist or something and that was the case he had just had a lot of gf's and so they all said it was only going to last about 2 weeks well it ended up being about a month and then he said that he had to many family problems and he couldn't handle the pressure so he broke up with me at a party on someone else's cell phone through a text message so not cool and I was a bit wasted so I cried and then drank more.........well as my story goes on it was officially over I gave him his stuff back and tried to forget all about him but it just wasn't happening he was all I thought about never thinking about anything else I tried calling him and asking him if it was really over well he kept saying he still wanted to be with me and that it was just hard well I find out that he got another gf and he was trying to make me jealous well it wasn't working I didn't let it so weeks went by and he wanted to decide when we talked to each other and when we didn't well I wasn't having it I stopped all contact with him I was so mad. It ended up I just could not be mad at him there was no way he was all I thought about it killed me......then he asked me out repeatedly and I said no I couldn't do it even though it's what I wanted . the months flew by new crushes and no i still could not stop thinking about him well it went to the point where I would always talk about him I convinced myself I was in love with him and we would eventually get back together i still think that will happen....... but he had started to threaten my friends with his current gf at the time and I wasn't going to have it so I layed into him cussing him out with nothing holding me back its been almost a month since I have talked to him and just recently I have given him the time of day or even looked at him but even though I was really mad I still thought about him periodically through the time I was mad and I'm thinking again that I might me in love with him but I don't want to be it's crazy will someone please tell me what to do or what I should do!!!!!!! i wrote a novel but I couldn't have written it any other way to make people understand so sorry for how long it is but please take the time to read it and help me out....it's appreciated!
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maybe try telling him how you feel or image someone is him and vent. and just remember if you dont trust that person dont go into a relationship because soon enough youll get hurt. hope that helps.=]
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hi im 5'2 14 years old and 112 pounds. i don't reli think im fat or overwieght but i cant STAND the way i look in a bathingsuit i was wondering if anyone had any tips for working out focusing on my stomach and thighs thanks so much (link)
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sit-ups are good for only focusing on you stomach area. try running and jump roping there fun and a good way to keep in shape. hope it helps.=]
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I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem. For about the past month or so, I have not been able to fall asleep before the hours of 1:00 and 2:00 in the morning. Sometimes even later. I have a 9:00 class on MWF so this sleep schedule makes it very difficult for me to get up in the mornings. However, no matter what time I wake up in the morning, I'm unable to fall asleep at an early time. I could sleep about 5 hours total and not be able to fall asleep until 1am that next night. I don't normally take naps, I'm awake, tired & groggy all day up until 8 or 9 at night..then I'm wide-awake.
How does a person deal with this? Its like I have to completely exhaust myself before I can finally fall asleep. (link)
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okay. if your tell your doctor they can give you sleeping pills that will help you sleep normally. just make sure you have 8-12 hr just for sleeping. hope that helps. =]
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